Think it’s disgusting seeing a 33 yr old man taking a 19 year old girl to the movies?

[Anonymous]

[zeitgeist057]

Disgusting? Nah, what's disgusting is people sitting around with nothing better to do than judge others and be shitty about what is none of their business. Those losers are the real travesty of the scenario, and the type of people to avoid in life, lest you get caught up in their toxic habits and fail to have a life of your own to focus on.

100% honesty here, I've never looked at ANYONE standing in line for the movies or anywhere else and thought to myself "how disgusting" based on their age, ethnicity, gender, dress, the company they kept (like your example of an older person with a younger person), or anything other than if maybe they had really bad personal hygiene or were acting like a jerk. Like yeah, if I'm smelling a person from 10' away, that's kind of disgusting. But also I'm not hating on them, I'm feeling sorry for them because they are probably not doing so well to be like that.

[Asker]

So you would date a girl that young?

[zeitgeist057]

sure, if we had good chemistry. I have before, and my current girlfriend is 23.

[zeitgeist057]

You can see some more of my perspective in my answer to this question: What age is your limit? ↗

[zeitgeist057]

(it's at the top, under "Most Helpful Opinion")

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I might piss some people off but I don't think it's usually right unless she's incredibly mature for her age. It's too easy for a guy that much older who has been around the block to use his much greater experience and skill in charm and seduction to take advantage of her youthful naivety.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Same to some extent if a 33-year old woman was dating a 19-year old guy, although I will probably piss some more people off thinking that's not nearly as bad since the guy tagging along is more likely to be happy just to get laid. Such a guy's youthful and naive consent can't generally be exploited as much in a way that risks hurting him so badly.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s gross. That said, one friend in his mid forties, embarrassed me by hitting on my nineteen year old young friend a few years ago. He went red and sweaty and stammered and gave her gifts. Then the guy I’d had a crush on ignored me and ended up dating her, which didn’t last long of course. He was 31 and she was 19. Pretty big age differences, I’d say. I personally wouldn’t date anyone more than 4-5 years younger.

[Apple1996]

Yeah I don't think it's appropriate for a man that old to date a girl that he can't even bring into a bar

[Avicenna]

LOL, no, unless she looks underage. She's an adult, so why is it "disgusting"?

[normalice]

Disgusting is the wrong word. Alcoholics are "something" but disgusting isn't it. They prefer feeling like they have escaped reality over learning to cope with it. That's how seeing a 33 year old running around with a 19 year old strikes me. It's not gross just.. a lie.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

If you mean dating, then yeah, I think it is. But that's because someone in their 30s shouldn't be dating a high schooler.

[Asker]

19 is a year removed from high school

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I was 19 in my senior year of high school.

[Asker]

You flunked a year

[PBandJ_Nerd]

And? I still worked hard to get a diploma in the end and I made much better friends, so it doesn't matter if I was held back. I needed it for my brain & development. My mom knew what was best for me.

[Tim2nice]

That’s not for you to decide who people should date or not

[abc3643]

That's only a 14-year age difference.

Trump's current wife is 26 years younger than him. That's like he was a 45-year old man taking a 19-year-old "girl" to the movies.

[Ashley1993]

2 adults going to the movies , what's wrong in that?

[RavVid]

If adults want to go to movies or have sex than it is their adult choice. After AoC is reached nobody has got anything to say.

Plus just looking at people is unreliable in judging ages.

[patrick994]

Honestly no, both of them are of age and adults even though there is a big age difference, the important thing is that they are fine.

[strateguy632]

you are too judgmental. same as you can't say offensive "gay is disgusting " can't say this judgmental stuff.

[DaBiggestBird]

That does sound weird kind of however mathematically speaking it is fine as a normal human being should be basically completely matured anatomically speaking

[exitseven]

They could be brother and sister or friends. Not everything is abour sex.

[laly520]

she is an adult but not as mature as him so thats the issue

[msc545]

You know nothing about the maturity level of either one, and it's not your business.

[laly520]

hurt? mad?
its my own opinion
I never forced u to take it
plus there is sth called common sense

[msc545]

Your opinion is worthless without some facts to support it.

[FunkyMonkee]

Why? They're both adults and there's only about a 13.5 years difference between them.

[Sparkie460]

Maybe they are related. Whatever the case may be, I don't pass judgment. They are both of legal age

[Anonymous]

Just because she is an adult age doesn't make it right.

[zagor]

No. I've taken 14 year old girls to the movies.

Of course they were my nieces.

[IMPRESIVE]

how about a 50 year old and an 18 year old walking into a motel room together

[msc545]

both legal adults. She might be a prostitute trying to make money to feed herself.

[butterly248]

As long as she is okay with it, no it's not wrong

[Tim2nice]

No. It isn’t unless she’s been forced

[LiamJHayden]

Not my business.

[Roudyrebel8]

No she's an adult

[Twalli]

She could be a relative

[Anonymous]

I could care less man.

[war_daddy]

haha jealous?

[Asker]

No I just hear a lot of girls say it’s disgusting

[war_daddy]

nah that's nothing

[Anonymous]

Nope not at all

[shortster]

Nope

[Minahh]

Yeah pretty much