Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI just think girls and young women have this absurd long list and social media, guys online paying girls to do weird stuff to them, dating apps favour girls heavily, what do girls have to work for really? Something big and bad is about to go down, I am talking catastrophic. I truly believe there will be another World War and Great Depression, once those two things happen and history repeats itself, women will be hit in the face with reality. If she loses her job, loses fake friends who never really cared for her, doesn't have a husband because that guy isn't 6'4, or that guy isn't calm but she acts out of control. I just think dating and marriage is such a joke now, no one takes it seriously, especially women. I was listening to a scholar once and he said, there are people (both men and women) who get married for fun and games, get divorced, get remarried then get divorced, and so on. He said, eventually that person has to look at themselves in the mirror and realize how many opportunities do they need to find the one, how long will they realize that they are also at fault. Girls who read this will just think i'm some female hater. I call out guys on their nonsense, and I will call girls out on their nonsense.
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+1 yI always preferred women with highly expressive faces and body language. I never found many models all that attractive since lots of them seem kind of poker-faced or, worse, have a resting bitch face. Even though their faces might betray their true thoughts and feelings, I'm very turned off by that since I count on body language so much to interpret how people feel. So I always found actresses much more attractive, in general, than models, since actresses really emote their feelings through their body language.
Also prefer women that smell nice, especially down there.
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So even if a woman was the most compassionate, patient, friendliest, least judgmental woman in the world, if she had a resting bitch face and barely ever smiled, I would be repulsed immediately as soon as I talked to her since my more shallow side that judges people based on their body language would be screaming to me that she's so unfriendly, even though she isn't.
+1 yIf I wasn't considering personality, compatibility, same values and morals, then their weight and dick size, age, as well as past baby mama baggage (divorce) and any children they had from previous relationships. No thanks. Oh and substance abuse as well.
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+1 yBeing in shape because I value good health.
Being good in bed because sex life is important to me.
Being open minded and not set in their ways completely.612 Reply- +1 y
What about you?
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That big big PP.
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I remember. I remember what toys you owned lol.
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My bad lol. 🤫
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There are some that would find these shallow.
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+1 yI was very, very shallow, grew out of that.
31 Reply 16.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Most shallow preference? That she be tall and have no tattoos.
10 Reply“ Expensive dates”
Lol I get that us women want a guy with deep pockets but man, some of them are giving us a a bad rep……I am a woman and I enjoy talking and walking across the river or just wanting someone to cook our dinner so we just eat and relax20 Reply
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Using this Krea render as an example...
Her boobs are a bit bigger here than they should be. Even so, that's a minor detail. Otherwise, I could go for this.
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You could go for a fake creation. And we wonder why we can't find happiness.
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@Radiate143 : I could go for a woman with that appearance and figure. Of course, she'd have to have real flesh and blood. The illustration merely prevents me from having any legal issues like I'd have with a real photo.
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What legal issues? Please.
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@Radiate143 :
- "I didn't say you could show my face online like that! Reeeee!!!"
- "This photo is copyrighted. Please remove."
- "Ew... why are you sharing HER picture to some random website?"
But if the example is a CGI creation, and not anyone real, then those critics can bugger right off.
m +1 yHard one tbh, possibly that they have tattoos, yes it’s not the normal thing but if I had one then possibly that. It’s a bit like being choosy about cake.
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I like tats, preference would be a girl to have them to one that did not
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I know that but I have read some of the comments about them on here 🤣
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Good for you, far to many of those types.
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+1 yI don't think my preferences are shallow honestly. I prefer that the girl works out and cares about her body image and appearance. I live an active lifestyle and love doing stuff like hiking often, camping, kayaking, playing volleyball and fucking around doing cartwheels and stuff. And it would be nice to have a physically active partner that can share the same experiences.
And I prefer feminine women with long hair, that prefer to wear dresses.10 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yWeight. I don’t like big girls at all……….
if your on the thinner side. I can compromise almost anything else…….. but being big tells me everything I need to know about someone.
choices, self Control, work ethic. …. Ect….. I’m over 6ft, tall, Athletic, make great money…….. everything a female looks for.. so I expect the very best in return. And weight is a big NO NO
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+1 yMust have a round, juicy booty (firm is a bonus) as I love eating a woman's ass. Likes talking dirty/having innuendo chats. Isn't vanilla as I do like some kinky sex.
Looking after herself is a must as I enjoy exercising and staying in shape.
Not too much to ask lol 😆
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+1 ybeing tall
before you get your pitchforks out it's a preference and not a requirement lol im tall too so i get a pass11 Reply - 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yPersonally to me would be some booty but tbh as long as it's not textbook flat ifs also flexible
According to society it's that I care about body count.11 Reply 3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Well the obvious shallow stuff is her body type and I tend to like them on the thick side with big assets.
But really what I want most is to be the center of her universe and I will do the same thing with her. Each other above *EVERYTHING*.
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+1 yI’m a sucker for a pretty face…. but also a stickler for one😅
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I mean REALLY😝
https://youtu.be/Qrm6bdOfSx8?si=RSNUpfMtDIIemy9E - +1 y
Guilty😅
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+1 y@miah04 My most shallow preferences when it comes to potential partners are having no ex-boyfriends, no divorce, & no tattoos. Thus, I am willing to pass up potential matches to ensure I only date a woman with no ex-boyfriends, no tattoos, & no divorce.
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+1 yI would say tall or taller women with big booties..
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Give me a big ol 6'5" giant basketball player looking beauty!.. JK.. LOL
Probably, around 5'7-6'0" the perfect height is probably 5'10" 😎👉.. - +1 y
Yeah since women are usually 5 inches shorter than men, I realized that that's equivalent to a a 6'10 dude.. Gotdamn.. 😂..
- 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yI prefer that they have a vagina. A real vagina. Crazy, I know.
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A girl vagina? 😮
2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. I'm turned off if she hasn't dated very many guys, or hasn't had sex for a really long time.
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I’m curious. What turns you off about a woman who hasn’t had sex in a really long time?
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@Justmisscurious I tend to be more attracted to women who are fairly active sexually, in part because a central element of my sexual lifestyle is being kept sexually frustrated by the woman whom I'm dating/serving.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI definitely require a guy to have muscles on his arms, chest and at least a little traps.
I don't ask for big muscles, but at least toned muscle definitions.
Abs are bonus, but not required and barely preferred, as long as a guy doesn't have a beer belly, since that implies his drinking habit (frequently and/or amount).
I love fitness and I work on my body, so I cannot have a partner that does not work on himself.01 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 yI would honestly prefer a guy to have muscles in his glutes and legs as well, but I've noticed that a lot of guys don't work their lower body.
So as long as a guy runs or does some type of sport that I can say that he would have good endurance and strong hip, then I'd be fine with that.
750 opinions shared on Dating topic. 1. No tattoos or body piercings.
2. Must have pretty feet.
She could be smoking hot but if she misses out on one or both of those I don't touch her with a 10 ft pole.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yLesbian. It's not a deal breaker but a serious con to me if a girl has a flat butt or no curve to her hips/thighs. I'll take any weight, any breast size, I'm easily pleased in those departments. But a flat ass is a bit of an issue for me.
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+1 yI will not let others define my ''shallowness''.
That's why I don't have any ''shallow preferences'' :)
Basically, I don't demand features and traits that I can't deliver myself.
10 Reply Don't wait too long before first sex. I'm a rarity. A woman can actually give it up on the first date and I'll come back over and over and over and over again.
10 ReplyI would prefer a shorter woman, but I'm not in the dating pool right now.
I am working on improving the most important relationship, the one with myself.10 Reply
+1 yDon't think I have any shallow preferences. But if I had to pick... probably that she have few to no tattoos
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+1 yI’m shallow - I get it, but breast size and they have to be petite.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 ythat they have to be slim not chubby/overweight and that they should be at least be at minimum pushing 5'8 (won't date people shorter than that because i am 5'8)
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Opinion Owner+1 yalso their face needs to be at least kinda cute
+1 yPhysical fitness. You don't have to be ripped but not being healthy is a turn off.
10 Reply742 opinions shared on Dating topic. Assuming physical only. He has to have strong arm muscles…. 🫢 and a nice smile/hair.
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+1 yNice ass. Doesn't need to be perfect or anything but it's a huge plus the closer it gets 😂
10 Reply 453 opinions shared on Dating topic. Big breasts and big ass, shallow but attraction is non-negotiable.
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+1 yExpecting your partner to support you financially when you're just dating.
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+1 yTheir body type. I cut off at a certain amount of fat.
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+1 yThere are no shallow preferences in my opinion. Its the details that make life enjoyable.
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+1 yFlat stomach. Can't be woth a guy who had a flabby gut. Also, weak chins.
10 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends what people think shallow. I guess for me is big women , not for me. Other then that, I'm not sure what may seem shallow.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yNo bald men, has to be a few inches taller then me. I am short so usually this is not too much to ask for.
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+1 yI have a dad bod.
I don't want a woman who is more out of shape than I am!
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+1 yHonestly as long as she’s shorter than me & not overweight. Thats really about it. & feminine.
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+1 yCan’t be taller than me. Can’t be skinny or obese.
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+1 ySkinny with Big Tiits (at least a Full C cup my preference is Double Ds)
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI like guys that are 6'4
Broad shoulders. I like muscular guys but bulk is better than a cut build. I'm healthy weight. I want the guy to be healthy too. Can't stand guys that don't like fruits or vegetables.
10 Reply307 opinions shared on Dating topic. I don’t consider not liking obesity to be shallow since it’s changeable. I suppose my main shallow thing would be I would struggle to find someone who is disfigured or disabled attractive, depending on the extent of said disfigurement/disability
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI like petite yet athletic body types on women. But it’s not a deal breaker.
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+1 yI ain't considering anybody for anything in my life if they can't make me a meal
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+1 yI prefer healthy body and calm demeanor. Also a solid moral code…..
20 Reply6K opinions shared on Dating topic. That they are a biological woman.
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+1 yI use to only date if they had a nice big ass but I’m not like that anymore 😂
10 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. For me It's a deal breaker if She has Big Breasts and if She is not Caucasian.
10 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Height or anything size wise if you ask me. Those are things the person had no choice in…
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+1 yHe should have a bigger chest than mine. 😌
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Haha. I mean Pectoral chest muscles. They are hard to find around my town.
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yCircumcised is a must, no temper, sees his kid (s) minimally 50.9%, works full time, tidy home, doesn’t slam cupboards or drawers and isn’t a heavy footed walker, puts laundry away when it’s clean.
Pretty simply really00 Reply
+1 yHis dick size, muscle, money, love, fairy tale wedding
10 Reply3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. The ass phat or not
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI don’t date. Gave up on that years ago. Lol
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yNo Jewish or semite ancestry.
20 ReplyIs her ass plump enough?
10 Reply475 opinions shared on Dating topic. Her perfect body
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+1 yThat he’s active and has a nice nose
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Forgot feet I’m so icked out by feet but he has to have nice ones to date me
798 opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't like too masculine jaws.
10 Reply669 opinions shared on Dating topic. Dark tall and handsome
10 ReplyHow attractive the woman is.
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