What do you prioritize when choosing a partner for a relationship?

[daryan12s]

Sense of humor

Appearance

Kindness

Intelligence

Charisma

Your option

[AlphaRosie69]

Appearance is definitely a part for me. If I'm not physically attracted to a person than the chances of me having romantic feelings for them is moot. They don't have to be super hot or anything, just average. I prefer natural looking guys as opposed to guys with muscles. I prefer tall and skinny. I also look for kindness and sense of humor, a guy that makes an effort for his relationship. I love a guy that can make me laugh and treat me with kindness and actually show that he loves me. These qualities are important for setting the foundation for a relationship for me. Even then, I could find a guy attractive but if that's all he has then I won't bother. That's not to say that I wouldn't date any other type of guy. These are just the things I find important for me to be interested.

[IDontBelieveIt]

brilliant answer

[DizzyDesii]

I need someone who could talk about nothing and i still find them interesting. I’m a talker and i need someone who also talks but listens for the both of us. They need to be able to hold a conversation and shut me up in the sweetest way possible. We need to be able to give and receive great advice from eachother. I want us to be eachother guidance, teacher, therapist and supporter. I need someone understanding and who will hear me out rather than cut me off. Communication really is everything

[Aethereal]

Values. By that I don't mean political, cultural or religious values. I mean:
- Similar views on what makes a healthy, strong relationship.
- How we deal with problems e. g. compromise vs. competition/dominance, equality etc.
- Similar positions on relationship matters like level of attention, jealousy, clingyness, space (or lack thereof).

I feel this is most important. You can have the most beautiful, intelligent, funny, kind or fun partner, but if (for example) you like lots of attention, and they don't, there really isn't much of a future to the relationship.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Out of all those options, I’ll pick kindness/ compassion.


No matter how sexy the partner is, no matter how intelligent, successful career she has, etc etc; if they lack compassion/ kindness, I refuse to go anywhere with them.


With kindness you get understanding, with understanding you get intelligence, with intelligence you get me. I need these things in order to be happy with the partner. I’ll work with everything else and look for room for improvement and happily help them.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Thanks for mho

[ArztSchlachthof]

Ambition. What of it if a girl is gorgeous, intelligent and kind, but shy and reluctant to share my passion for changing the world, going beyond mortal ambition and helping others? At first, my standards were low, but over those years I realised I need someone with the same or even higher sense of purpose compared to mine.

It has just to be a set of all mentioned character traits and enthusiasm, willpower, strength, titan's courage, empathy and colossal tenacity. Is it a lot? I fear it is. Nonetheless, that's what I chose.

[caring__1]

Any of these can initially draw you to a person, but it's the ongoing kindness that will keep you coming back. Don't just think about the moment. What will hold your interest 20-40-60 years from now? I understand some people see kind people as weak, as they're more likely to be manipulated by users, but two kind people together makes for a beautiful match. On your deathbed, will you be focusing on their sense of humor, appearance, intelligence or charisma? You'll still value their kindness.

[IDontBelieveIt]

That's awesome

[exitseven]

I picked kindness. To me cruelty is the biggest turnoff.

[MannMitAntworten]

None of thee above. A mutual interest in one another. They can have all that ‘stuff’ listed up above and you can too, but if one or both still aren’t interest in one another, it’s moot.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

After that initial physical attraction, I will slowly pay more attention for intelligence & kindness. However, I think kindness is more important.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Kindness, appearance, sense of humour, intelligence, and shared values.

[DaveToo]

After the beauty fades, the mind is still going strong. That's what I love.

[Aether1]

Religious values, I want to be in a relationship with a Christian girl. Or a non religious one that's open to dating a guy that's Christian.

[MelissaMarie9614]

Definitely sense of humor and kindness. That's important. Personally is what matters most! And that he would understands me and loves for who I am!

[jerdanro]

Sadism. (No not sexual sadism) I want to know about their history of torturing and killing small animals so I can approximate the amount of emotion destruction they will cause.

[Spider-Genius]

I would always want to fell comfortable in a relationship and if my partner is unkind the there is no fun or comfort in that relationship and it is worth nothing

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Theyre just as weird as i am

[Wise4myage]

A through E. They are all important.

[MCheetah]

Kindness, or a compatible personality.

[SandandWaves]

kindness

[RickVienna]

Women all above penis size

[Anonymous]

Big tits, a slim waist, and a big ass.

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

Chemistry

[dray995]

All of the above

[bones0271]

INTEGRITY