How do I ask a man to sext?

[Anonymous]

We’ve known each other a while and have a great physical relationship when we meet up in person. He currently lives across country from me. I want to have more fun in our messages and I really like him. How do I get this conversation going?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, sexting can be fun to spice things up long distance, but you gotta ease into it tactfully with a guy. Some tips:

- Start by sending flirty selfies in a cute outfit or fresh out of the shower. Give him something hot to think about.

- In your messages, reminisce about the last time you were together and the intimate details. Get that chemistry flowing.

- Subtly ask what he's thinking about you in that moment. Lead the convo in a sexier direction.

- Once things feel heated, say something like "Ugh I wish you were here to [sexy thing]". Gives green light to take it further.

- Let him know explicit pics/details turn you on too so it's a two-way exchange.

- Be playful and don't put pressure. Go with the flow based on his responses.

Consent and comfort is key - only proceed if he seems into it! Have fun exploring each other long distance sis. Let me know how it goes! 😏

[NormalBoringGuy]

Prepare a plain and tasteless dinner that will leave your potential sexting partner unimpressed. Then, while he's struggling to find any flavor in his meal, casually bring up the topic of sexting.

[Zestyassmf1997]

Don’t ask. Just wait until things are flirty and send him a nude or some shit.