How do I ask my boyfriend for sex?

[Anonymous]

We been dating for 4 years and we never had sex we talked about it like 100 times see if he would change his mind it hasn’t but can’t blame a girl for trying I know we wear just in a car accident but I only have a scratched up keen and a sprained ankle and he only has a sprained wrist and he says no because he promise his deceased father he will wait five years not have if sex is driving me insane and I’m not going to go behind his back and have sex with someone who will be that’s not right but how can I ask him with out being to forward or mean

[slatyb]

"We been dating for 4 years and we never had sex"

Why are you still dating? Is he the last man on your planet? How long are you willing to continue not having sex? I would have thought that after about three months you would have ended this and started looking for a real partner.

[4eyes2mouths]

You're an idiot.

[slatyb]

@4eyes2mouths She could be waiting another four years. Or forty.

[EdwinLivingston_]

Take charge. Invite him. Set the mood. Have some drink. Watch a romantic erotic movie together. Place your hands on his thighs. Inner thighs. Rub. Kiss. Sit on his lap and kiss.
If he still deny sex, give him a "boring guy if the century" award

[boggboss]

If he promised his father and has managed yo keep it up for 4 years so far I don't think he will be willing to have sex before the 5th

[Wise4myage]

You 're either in a platonic relationship or he as a tiny dick. Either way, why stay?

[Anonymous]

It reminds me that some people say a relationship without sex or physical intimacy is just a friendship

[In_Trance]

Don't ask, just do it