Hello everyone, long story short we've been together for one and half years. My boyfriend says he will marry me, puts efforts to meet me , pays for dates and gets ready to buy anything I say. But he has told lots of hurtful things to me like he doesn't care if I stay or go (after 4 months in relationship), he misses his ex physically, I wasted his time , and so on.
He too has manipulated and emotionally blackmailed for sex to prove that I love him. He too had tried to force sex upon me even if I was saying it's hurting me. He too has slapped me 2 times for not fulfilling his wishes.
He's never said sorry to me about what he has done to me. So overall he has been quite inconsiderate to my feelings. He says it's difference in our opinions but I feel he doesn't love me and is only with me for his convenience. He says he is giving me what he can and I'm very difficult to satisfy , I'm expecting a perfect partner.
But I don't think it's okay to behave like that with people whom we love. He is in hurry to get married and settled in abroad. So in this condition I'm really not confident that he will treat me good after getting married esp during pregnancies.
He says he loves me more than anything else but I'm not able to believe him. Hence will it be reasonable to ask him to cut off all contacts with me so that he can evaluate his feelings for me? What else can be done? Please suggest.
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