If you were slapped by your boyfriend / girlfriend or husband/ wife, would you forgive him / her?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

Other

A total of 49 votes were cast: 25 girls and 24 guys. See detailed results

[strateguy632]

nope, dump or divorce even "just once".

ask yourself if you loved someone would you hit them?

[Asker]

Nope, I think it might happen accidentally.

[Vesuvius87]

First of all, I know some defensive moves so the slap would be neutralized. It would be stopped before making contact.

I would still have to break-up because there is no respect nor trust there. Without respect or trust there is nothing. It would be over immediately.

[DishLady]

Have one been a victim of domestic violence, NO. There’s never a justification for it. You can forgive but don’t just stay there and be someone else’s punching bag.

[Billlewis]

If/when she slaps me, I do much, much more than just forgive her; I thank her for correcting me and encourage her to do it more often;)

[AI Opinion]

Well, coming from the love corner, let's tackle this spicy topic! 🌶️ Forgiveness is a beautiful concept indeed, but it's also about as complicated as understanding why we can't find our other sock in the morning. If my significant other decided my cheek needed some "affectionate" slapping, we'd need a serious heart-to-heart talk. The key here is communication, boundaries, and respect. Love should feel like you're getting the biggest, warmest hug, not like you've accidentally enrolled in a martial arts class you never signed up for. Forgiveness? Possible, but that action plan better include understanding, remorse, and a whole lot of effort to ensure it's a one-time show. Remember, love is about lifting each other up, not laying one down! 🥊💔

[The_Sexpert]

Never
Only excuse for a physical attack is self defense and I'd never pose a physical threat to her

[FatNeville]

Always forgive, never forget. And occasionally press charges for domestic violence. But not forgiving only makes you feel worse.

[desidoll]

I would never use violence on other people so I expect the same. Not gonna forgive anyone who puts their hands on me. I thank God that my husband is not like that.

[CriticalCatDad]

No I would it forgive her because women are already too privileged and I couldn’t hit her back without going to jail so fuck that I’d leave them immediately no second chances

[EddieWinehouse]

I mean she beat me with a water heater once but it was my mistake :P so yeah i will forgive her because i find her cute when she's upset

[Twalli]

Was it intended to cause harm? My girlfriend and I have hit each other playfully and I spank her during sex. No harm intended, no malice, so we don't even need to forgive each other because we know what it is intended as.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Uhh yes, because it's only consensual arse/ass smacks during sexual intercourse or foreplay with my hypothetical girlfriend lol lol 😂😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

So I voted yes. Wow, look at the poll ♂️ 👀

[Twalli]

I answered other, because if it's to harm the other person or malicious, thrm that's a problem and you shouldn't forgive thrm for that, but as you said, spanking during sex is part of the sex.

[Blue_Brady]

If they do it once, they'll definitely do it again, unless you leave them.

[tomboy2003]

Of course not. That’s an act of violence. Why would I trust again a violent person?

[KittygosMeoWW]

I forgave a person in my past for physical abuse, so I will never do it again.

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

No way if they ever want to slap me it will be during a multiple orgasms!

[Serkee]

Well, why did she slap me?

[Asker]

It maybe for any reason, I just want to know, couples in relationships forgive or not? Or they runaway for simple reasons?

[Serkee]

I can't really answer your question if it's for any reason, context matters a lot in situations like this. There are situations where I would forgive it, and other situations where I wouldn't.

[Asker]

So it depends on the situation.

[Serkee]

Yeah. I wouldn't tolerate it in any situation, but depending on the context I might or might not forgive her for it.

[Asker]

Cool!

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, I can't be with a man who has no respect or control.

[Asker]

Forgive?

[Ms_Facesitter]

My answer won't change.

[Asker]

Okay 👍

[jahaims]

Would depend on the context I suppose

[DrPepper12]

It depends!! So many variables!!

[itsclearlynicholas]

@DrPepper12 you seen like the first man to really reply to: look at that poll huh? I voted yes. And look at all those women voting no. ... hmmm... think it says something that, intriguingly, one might say "the men are more forgiving women" or "the men, more likely to, have no shame" lol 😆 it can be read like art so many ways 🎨🎭 ♂️♂️♂️♂️♂️

[itsclearlynicholas]

Yet the women sure are one sided lol voting above

[Asker]

@itsclearlynicholas It's clear, women don't want to forgive. Most men have big heart ❤️.

[exitseven]

Yes, I can take a joke.

[whereismyjohnny]

Absolutely no!

[itsclearlynicholas]

Fair answer, yet I'm intrigued by the polling so far and how it's read many ways. And how it's alternating between the genders lol 😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

I for one voted yes, ... I wonder what that makes me. Rhetorically

[elizamichale1]

Whatt? Noo I would never do tht

[mickeysmonkey]

No need for slapping

[elizamichale1]

@mickeysmonkey nops not at all

[mickeysmonkey]

@elizamichale1 maybe some fun spanking

[elizamichale1]

@mickeysmonkey well I don't do tht but he sure spanks me n all

[FuqUFggt]

I'd pay them and say yes my mistress

[MissBoogus]

Yeah