Would a 19 year old girl be attracted to a 33 year old man?

[Anonymous]

[RavVid]

No reason why not. Girls tend to be more developed emotionally... well not so much today with party life... but some still are and have well thought out life plan. Some girls think it is better to have children earlier so there is impact on career.

Boys their own age might be too boyish for their life plan.

So I could see it happening.

[82lynx]

I would be suspicious if they tried to chat me up. It wasn’t that long ago that a 24 year old contacted me out of the blue, kept telling me she is “aromantic” and just looking for PS4 gaming buddies, then when she got mad at me she started twisting my words and wouldn’t let the issue go. It wasn’t the first time that one of her kind flipped the crazy switch on me. I won’t put up with that rubbish.

[Amara_09]

Yes it happens. I have been attracted to men as old as 40. It never has anything to do with age though but what the men are like……….. the younger men or men my age are just straight shitheads. I am an asshole myself so I don’t dare other assholes

[Asker]

You don’t feel grossed out, being so young with a grown man? A man who’s old enough to be your daddy?

[Amara_09]

Why would I be grossed out because I like the guy.

why are talking about fathers? Is this guy my father? No he is not.

This man is attractive as hell so what’s that gotta do with my father?

Why are bringing fathers into this conversation?

[Asker]

I was just asking a question

[Amara_09]

No I do not feel grossed out because age is not the only factor here

[Asker]

How many men 30 or older have you dated?

[Amara_09]

3……a couple that were a year or 2 older than me……….. I was never in a situation where I dated a younger guy

[Asker]

Well you’re not that young. You’re 24, not like you’re 18 so most people would think that age gap is bad

[Amara_09]

I was 19 then when I dated

[Amara_09]

I have not dated anyone for 3 years now

[Amara_09]

Most of my dating took place from the ages of 18 up to 20

[stratford]

Why do you say you're an asshole?

[Amara_09]

Because I am. It’s always my way ……I can’t admit when I am wrong because I don’t want to. I manipulate myself in my own ways………and I hate it when someone else does the opposite of what I want

I think I am better than everyone sometimes……. I judge myself but I also judge people entirely to read them. I lie sometimes even irresponsible with my words……. the list goes on

[stratford]

Haha - that all sounds pretty normal and part of our internal struggles. It would be fun to hang out and see how what you've said above comes across from the outside.

[Asker]

He’s trying to sweet talk you lol

[Amara_09]

Sweet talk basic 101

[Amara_09]

I don’t “hang out” not dilly dally shit over here , sweetheart

[steveusna]

When I was 50, I had a six month relationship with an 80 year old woman. The sex was out of this world amazing. She had gotten a vaginal rejuvination procedure which made her vagina like that of an 18 year old girl.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I was attracted to 34-36 yo man when I was 17, didn’t act on it other than flirting

[Drew-1990]

Oh yea it happens. Found for various reasons, sometimes for money, sometimes for experience, sometimes for their maturity or just they just like the guy. I have never had a younger girl after me myself but that don't bug me. I don't think I would do a 10+ age difference, the girl would have to be one amazing girl.

[OddBeMe]

If she has daddy issues, or likes her guy to have money.

I bet you’re suffering from “ transference” where you his authority or seemingly endless knowledge has you crushing on him. It’s very common. So common it’s illegal to date a therapist, teacher or lawyer because it can cause psychological harm.

[Joshydavid25]

Of course plenty are if he looks good, or if she is just one of those girls who seem to like guys quite a bit older than her.. Which seems to be a lot of them these days.. LOL..

[Twalli]

She could be. As for a possible reason it's because he's established in life and probably sexually and romantically expierenced, or at least appears to be such.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't know about 19 specifically, but 20-22 and 47 seems to happen a lot based on my trips to campus.

[slatyb]

Some 19-year-old women will definitely be attracted to some 33-year-old men, or 43-year-old men, or 53-year-old men.

[IMPRESIVE]

it happens but not normally. when you look at couples in restraunts, their age normally doesn't vary that much. honestly i get a lot of women of all ages attracted to me but other men my age, not so much.

[molonski2]

Are you kidding?

Happens simply ALL the time , and certainly older than that.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah it is possible, when I was 18 I had a crush on my 32 year old manager.

[Anonymous]

Maybe for her own reasons. I question Older guys doing this. hahaha

[Avicenna]

Many of them are

[XXblack88]

Some would

[Anonymous]

I dated one when I was 38. So probably.

[Asker]

How did you handle the parents at home? I wouldn’t wanna have to deal with that lol

[Opinion Owner]

I told them my intentions for dating her.

[Asker]

That’s smart, one guy said he doesn’t mind a grown man dating his daughter if he intends to marry her

[Asker]

But you lied because you ain’t with her anymore. Just wanted some young pus lol

[Opinion Owner]

I told her mom that I was looking for someone to marry and I was hopeful that her daughter was that person. I never said that I would marry her. Plus I also told her why we broke up when it happened.

[Asker]

You took her virginity and her future. You used her for sex. Such a perv

[Opinion Owner]

Actually she took my virginity. She wasn't a virgin when we met.

[Asker]

Dude you were 38 and a virgin? She didn’t mind dating you?

[Asker]

Did you ask you why did it take you ages to finally have sex?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, no she rather liked me. That's why I met her mom. She didn't.

[Asker]

Her mom hated you?

[Opinion Owner]

She liked me too

[Asker]

The mom likes you romantically?

[Opinion Owner]

As a person

[Drumlin2001]

It's possible

[Alex-Snow]

She could be

[CozyCoffin]

Yeah.

[Charliefretz329]

Why not?

[Anonymous]

It happens.