Does voice affect a person's attractiveness?

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Can you be turned off by someone's pitch? ..."His voice's too high!" Or "Nah... she sounds so husky"?

[SciencePreacher]

I don't think voice affects a person's attractiveness. I think it's more important to have a good personality and a stable job. I don't care if someone's voice is high or low, as long as they are nice and respectful like @normalboringguy.

I don't have much experience with dating, though. I prefer to spend my time doing more productive things, like sorting my paper clips by color, ironing my shirts, and reading the dictionary. I also like to watch documentaries about grass growing and listen to elevator music. Sometimes, I treat myself to a glass of water and a slice of plain bread.

I don't have many friends, either. I find most people too loud and annoying. They always talk about things that don't interest me, like sports, movies, or music. They also have hobbies that are too risky or expensive, like skiing, traveling, or gambling. I don't understand why they can't just be happy with what they have.

The only person I really talk to is my mother. She is very supportive and understanding. She always calls me every day and asks me how I'm doing. She also sends me coupons and recipes for pasta with tomato sauce, which is my favorite dish. Sometimes, we play scrabble together over the phone. She always lets me win, which is very nice of her.

So, to answer your question, no, voice does not affect a person's attractiveness. At least, not for me. I think there are more important things to look for in a partner, like compatibility, reliability, and honesty. I hope this helps. Thank you for your question. Have a nice day.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Hi. Thank you.

I was quite like you when I was younger. While people in my 20s were out on dating, I was sharpening pencils, sorting clothes and stuff as a volunteer, and asked myself why I was not doing the same. Maybe beacause I have been interested in science and love to think reather than think to love.

I agree with the compatibilities. Voices to me plays a little part. It's only one of a whole person, like looks. The lifestyle someone has speaks more about them.

I like scrabble too as well as other board games. I play with my students sometimes. What is the game you play on the phone? I'm collecting word games and review them for my class.

Have a nice day, too.

[SciencePreacher]

I'm just trolling, sorry. This was my first attempt to be like @normalboringguу.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Wahahahaha!!!@... Never mind. I don't mind trolls because I am the best troll! 😝

[SciencePreacher]

@Thanks_for_the_MHO

[SciencePreacher]

I suppose @normalboringguy was more boring than me.

[NormalBoringGuy]

Picture this. A girl screaming. Ghostly noises. May I introduce myself as the most unremarkable person? My sock drawer is meticulously organized because I believe in efficiency and orderliness. Please don't taint my Scrabble board with your whore words.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

@sciencepreacher
@NormalBoringGuy
What's going awwwwnnnnnnnn?

You like Scrabble too? I love Scrabble. You wanna play Scrabble with me? I have an old Scrabble board survived at least a decade, but I am looking for an online Scrabble game. So that I can play Scrabble anytime.

Nice to meet you anyways.

[SciencePreacher]

Nice to meet you and good bye my account will soon be terminated.

[NormalBoringGuy]

Mother says I am not allowed to play Scrabble with girls who wear such provocative clothing, unless they take a nice hot shower before the game.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

It's a deep source of attraction for me. I've always been drawn to women with somewhat deeper voices. Sigourney Weaver in Aliens is a prime example:

I found her unbelievably attractive as a boy even though she didn't seem celebrated so much for her beauty. And I couldn't pinpoint why I found her so attractive back then but, over the years, I think it's her voice. Her voice is so expressive but also assertive, sophisticated, firm, calm most of the time but capable of being outspoken when needed.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/rkBhLjwuq20

It makes me want to sit down and have conversations with her. The high-pitch giggly type of voices turn me off. I start to get this nightmare reaction as I imagine such giggly voices talking about boys and shopping and shoes and want to flee.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I find the deepest quality that attracts me to a woman beyond the basic "hubba bubba" are the qualities that make me want to have deep conversations with her. So vocal quality and the way she speaks can make a world of difference to me that way.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Woww. Cool. Thank you for sharing. How about your wife? Isn't she a Japanese that tends to have a higher pitch? If I'm not wrong...

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

She has a slightly higher pitch voice than Sigourney Weaver but she speaks in a way that doesn't sound as girly as most Japanese women. She has a more assertive falling intonation to her sentences, for example, without the rising inflection common here that makes sentences almost sound like questions.

I think it's more the manner of speaking than the precise pitch. I'm rather allergic to upspeak, for example, even from a deeper voice.
https://youtu.be/2RjPOUZkLfU

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Perhaps a simplistic way to think of it is to ask if a woman might make a great professor, like a professor of history, philosophy, literature, maybe even science (although I'm biased towards the arts and humanities).

My wife would make an excellent professor at least in terms of her public speaking skills. She has that kind of vocal quality. Same with Sigourney Weaver in my perspective.

I tend to be most attracted to those types of women. It might be somewhat sapiosexual but it's not specifically for intelligence and at least a conventional education is not a prerequisite. It's closer to "sophistication" as well as the ability to speak confidently, unabashed, firmly, perhaps the type of voice I consider ideal for a competent mother.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

The other type I like almost as much although my favorite might be what I call the "professor voice" is the one that is very street smart, sassy, "Girl, you need to get yo act together!" I like that too; it's not afraid to keep it real.

[Levin]

Great scene that.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@Levin One of the best! 💯

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Speechless. Her personality is so powerful. Me as well admire women who are confident and don't fake voice or character to appear weak and vulnerable. Respect always comes first.
I have a low voice. It's helpful when I lead a group to act on something. (And Jazz!) Unfortunately, now I teach young kids. The intimidiating look and deep voice have to be limited. I almost made one cry the days before. Up-speak would be useful in this case.

Thank you very much.

[AmandaYVR]

Yes, voices are integral for me. I notice them all the time and am instantly and innately attracted or repelled. Some might be between, and especially when it comes to business or some temporary interaction, you just overlook or ignore it when you don't like it, but in attraction, dating, partners, yeah, it definitely factors in for me significantly. Along with personality, good character, and compatibility, of course.

My favourite male voices are very deep, smooth, not nasally, and the man doesn't speak monotone all the time and varies his pitch intonation with his mood and for effect. I like variety and playfulness a lot. Or, containment and then abandon. Particularly around me. I like to feed off of each other. Also, people with complex backgrounds and accents you can't quite place are interesting to me. If the man has all these things, I could be sucked right in.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Thank you, Amanda. How have you been? I miss you. (If you still can remember me. Lots of crucial things happened, then I had to prioritize my life.)

Yes. You're right about the business setting and temporary interaction. Normally, it doesn't interest me. But when I hear the certain voices, I turn around to see the owners.

[AmandaYVR]

Hey, Rosa. 🤗 I remember. You were one of my first follows. I was wondering if/when you'd come back.
Yeah, same here, kind of. I don't post much anymore.
Nice to see you, though.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Thank you. Have a good weekend kaa. ☺️☺️

[coachTanthony]

Yes absolutely. Most voices do nothing but some can turn you off or on depending on how they sound. Makes them unique in a positive or negative way.

[smne35]

Actually it's been noted that a woman with somewhat of a deep voice is more attracting to both sexes, but women have always graduated to need with deep voices, Darth Vader for instances women are without saying staff to his voice so I have been told by many women in secret, have heard of women having an orgasm over phone talking with someone with a deep voice, it's when the octave no need to go into that but yeah ones voice makes a world of difference light high pitch voice projects a weak lack of confidence person wheat as a strong deep commanding voice speaks for itself, personally I like the soft melodious woman's voice clear tingling when whisper in ear lol

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Really? Me, on the other hand fall asleep. Ah... right I forgot, it's a podcast about philosophy. When I searched for ASMR, I it's 2 guys making love. 😂😂😂 No more!!

[smne35]

Yeah it affects some people that way but I'm only telling you what women told me. So about the Darth Vader thing I was surprise too. It's like really. So all I got to do is put that mask on and say Luke. I am your father That ain't no fun. I'd rather do it natural way but that's just me

[smne35]

Lol yeah you're funny lol. El tadala okay it's cool 😂🤣😵‍💫

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Thanks. May the Good Day be with you. 😊

[smne35]

And to you eye say may the nite be good wait dare I say black night coming😆😅

[NormalBoringGuy]

When I speak, I don't exactly have the smooth and sultry voice of Barry White or Morgan Freeman. I sound more like a malfunctioning GPS system giving directions to a lost driver. Maybe one day my dull monotone will become the next big trend in sexy voices.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Interesting. Lol. Do you sing or practise vocal?

[Biancam13]

Yes voice can be attractive, but voice is not as important as personality, mannerisms and physical attraction.

Some men's voices have made me more attracted to them (I like classy, deep, husky voices), and some men's voices made me me slightly less attracted (I don't like nasally or whiny voices as much), but I have never been completely put off a man because of his voice.

[IslaTheWitch]

I have never met a person whose voice was problematic.

But there were a few funny situations when I started to play with my current guild, and a few men (in their 30s) had a really high-pitched voice. It wasn't a problem but a surprise for me. We are friends, and I don't hear it anymore, but the beginnings were funny.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Yeah, absolutely.
I can also become much more attracted to someone only based on his voice - same with their scent.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

👍👍 Right. Women care more on voice and scent. Not sure which is more important..

[FunkyMonkee]

It can. I mostly like a girl with a normal girl voice but there's something about one with a SLIGHTLY deeper voice. I can only guess that it makes her more of a woman. Other than that, I'm not sure what I like about it. There's a guy that does these nostalgia videos on YT all the time and, as soon as I hear him, he sounds like a little girl!! "Hi! I'm Nostalgic Nick!" Almost sounds like he's got Micky Mouse's voice!!

[Mr_Citizen]

I will forever be traumatized by my then-best friend in high school casually telling me she'd spent all of homeroom period making fun of my voice with some of her other friends.

But anyways, yes. Pitch can absolutely affect how attractive I consider a person to be. But most people have very normal voices, so it doesn't really factor in.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

It seems like a voice has a power to reveal people's openmindess as well, right?

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Openmindness

[Mr_Citizen]

In the most unfortunate ways.

[sawno]

Absolutely, audio is my strongest sense so a voice can make or break a person I find attractive.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Do you work in music or related careers?

[sawno]

I don't but it just happens to be my strongest sense on my body so I rely on it more than others. For example most people rely on visual cue's more when interacting with someone, i discovered I developed a reliance on audio cue's. Works in my favor since most people try to keep a straight face still give it away in their speaking. Simultabiously audio is a dead giveaway if someone isn't actually a girl no matter how realistic they look.

So in my case a sexy voice is a turn on and makea her more attractive. While a male voice (Not to be confused with a deep female voice) is an avoid. Some women (at least allegedly) get caught in the crossfire by that but the times I had those doubts I can count on one hand. Other voice turn offs are people who have the smoker type voixe that is completely deatroyed.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Cool! That's a gift I suppose. You definitely survive from trans in Thailand. Many foreigners are fooled by the looks and dress, unknowingly date them. Even some Thai men can't tell.

What is the sexy female voice in your opinion? I like this singer. Emmaline.
open.spotify.com/.../6cBAQr4SjyDLDfkUa1oprE

[sawno]

I can't give concrete examples since I think most female voices qualify especially if she expresses things in an intentionally seductive tone, but its definitely the more vocal voices rather than the shy timid ones and it needs to avoid the "Man talking high pitched" range.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

That's okay. Thank you for sharing.

[Pink2000]

Absolutely. Because imagine a guy with a really high pitched voice trying to sound sexy. Complete turn off. The sound of their voice definitely plays a role when trying to talk you through it when having sex.

[chilldude33]

Voice can be initially attractive or weird, but then you get used to it, and it becomes neutral. When you like someone, their voice is pleasant to you. If you start disliking them, their voice becomes annoying real quick. 😆

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

It's like a quirk, isn't it?

[abc3643]

Absolutely.

There are plenty of beautiful women who a guy gets immediately turned off upon hearing her.

However, there are also some considerably not very attractive women whom guys melt for upon hearing her voice.

[HawkPerception]

Absolutely does. Not like guys wanna date a girl that sounds like a dude. Feminine voices are soft, gentle, seductive, cute, high pitched, etc.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

I do sound like a dude. Lol

[Anonymous]

yes. Some people have a very attractive voice. Someone (girl) I used to know had a type of voice what we always called a "seductive voice". Sounds weird to say but her voice sometimes sounds like you're listening to ASMR or something like that.

[Lliam]

Certain feminine voices can be super attractive. It's not so much about the pitch, although to high or too low might not be attractive. But it's more about timbre and articulation. Some voices are just super cute and make me melt.

[HighValue]

Yes, someone's voice can affect their appeal to me. Most voices make no difference, but if they have the wrong pitch it can be annoying, and if they have the right voice, it can make me want to hear her much more often.

[NathanDavis]

it can be a factor...

one of a few, or many factors...

personally... for me, neither pitch is a deal breaker

[LeeVan]

Yeah it's really noticeable if it's grating.

I hate excessive "um uh" vocal fry and painfully slow speech. I guess I just have a personal vendetta against the Valley Girl Accent

[LiamJHayden]

It can. I went on a date with a really sweet lady, but her voice made Fran Drescher's The Nanny voice sound like a choir of little birds in comparison.