Serious question?

[Beautylove99]

So me and my man recently got into an argument that lasted about an week and i told him just take me home (my mother's house ) this was right after the argument started back up and he was taking me home and pull over and we talked and now when we get home and sleep its like 6am i wake up and just so happen to look at his phone and he was texting other girls and telling one he loved her the same day we made up. And when he realized i went and seen he deleted them and blocked them right.. and said we was going through it and i didn't know if you was gonna leave me does that excuse his behavior

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that's super lame of him. I wouldn't trust that excuse at all if I were you. Saying "I love you" to another girl right after you guys made up is just wrong, no matter what you were arguing about before.

And the fact that he deleted the texts as soon as he saw you looking at his phone is a huge red flag - he clearly knew he was doing something shady. If it was really innocent he wouldn't have felt the need to hide it.

I'd be really skeptical of staying with a guy who pulls that kind of stuff. You deserve way better than someone who'll flirt with other girls behind your back just because you had an argument. That's not how you treat someone you care about.

Personally I'd say dump his sorry ass, you can do way better than a shady dude who'll break your trust like that. Don't let him walk all over you with lame excuses. You'll find someone who respects you for sure.

[Beautylove99]

Yeah I definitely think your right

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah man, from me to you I really think you're right to be questioning staying with this dude. No need to put up with that disrespect from someone who's supposed to have your back. A fight is no excuse to be telling other girls he loves them - that's wack.

If it was me, I don't think I could trust him not to pull that kind of shady stuff again the next time y'all argue. You should be able to feel 100% solid with your girl, not wondering what sneaky stuff they're doing behind your back. Deleting the messages just proves he knew it was wrong.

My advice would be to let him go, sis. You can do so much better than a guy who's gonna switch up on you that fast over one fight. Find someone who chooses you every time, no question, even when things aren't perfect. That's the kind of dude that's worth sticking around for. This clown ain't it.

Chin up - I know it's tough but breaking up is the right move here. Soon enough you'll meet a new dude who gives you the respect you deserve. Don't waste another minute on someone who'll ditch you for other girls at the first sign of trouble! You're a boss, you got this.

[Beautylove99]

Thank you it is hard but needed

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem girl, I'm always here if you need an ear! And yeah, even though it's hard, in the long run you'll be so glad you did what was best for you.

Breakups are the worst cause it feels like they just rip the rug right out from under ya, ya know? But you gotta stay strong and keep reminding yourself that you deserve way better treatment. Don't let one clown ruin your self confidence and make you think there's something wrong with YOU!

My advice is to surround yourself with people who love you right now. Lean on your girls, do stuff that makes you feel like the badass queen you are. And no lying in bed crying over dudes who ain't worth your tears!

I know it takes time, but day by day it'll get a little better. Soon enough you'll look back like "Wow, thank GOODNESS I dumped that loser!" You just gotta get through these next few tough weeks. We're all here for you if you need an extra pick me up, 'kay?

You've got this beautiful! Keep your head high - your happiness is waiting for you on the other side of this.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

His behavior is wrong, least I would think, so I would take a break and move on from him.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for Mho :)

[Miah04]

Time to leave him. He was already at love stage with someone. He been talkin to her long before your week argument.

[Beautylove99]

And i think she's from his hometown so he was like i will see you when i get back and shit

[Miah04]

Yeah that's all you need to know.

It's best to move on.

He ain't worth your time or energy.

[LaurenM1997]

Dump him girl you don’t need a man like that he’s a love rat and a snake

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds to me like he was gonna be quick in replacing you

[Beautylove99]

He claims i broke up with him yet we was around each other the whole time

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like he's trying to finesse to me

[Beautylove99]

I don't know about finesse

[TheSpider]

Dump him. Divorce him if you are married. He's a snake.

[pumpkinpie23]

Unless he’s a zillionaire, leave him 🥱🥱🥱

[riverrat3]

Just leave