Serious question?

[Abby-09]

A guy was just saying how he liked my boobs and how he thought I was pretty then a couple hours later he said can I jerk off to your photos and as my profile shows I am quite young. I got mad at him and I told him that was disgusting and shame on him he then called me
Flat and my TikTok’s cringe now even tho it’s summer I don’t wanna take off my hoodie cause he called me flat which is kinda true because of how young I am l. And now I don’t wanna post ever again. Please help what do I do?

[Wsx2wsx2ws]

You are not alone in being insulted. It has happened since man could speak.
REALLY IMPORTANT LESSON always consider the following words with every word people say to you.
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A long time ago there was a very wise and kind man. People insulted him for the kindness he did and the truth he spoke. His reply exposed this very true thing.
"... how can you speak good things when you are wicked? Out of the heart's abundance the mouth speaks. A wicked man brings forth wicked things out of his wicked heart. A good man brings forth good treasures out of a good heart." - Matthew 12:34
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This boy's bad words are a result of his bad heart. Nothing to do with you at all. When ever you hear people bad mouthing others, talking about them behind their back, talking negatively its because of their heart, not the subject they are speaking about. Be aware, this is true for you too.

Positive kind up building patient people have good hearts. If they offer advice or council you can rest assure it is to benefit you not tear you down.


Lastly I think this is important as well - "Do not hurry yourself in your spirit to become offended, for the taking of offense is what rests in the bosom of the stupid ones.”​—Eccl. 7:8, 9.
If you let other's words offend you, taking it personally, and let it infect you to make you bitter, you will act stupid. In effect you are letting their bad heart make your good heart bad.
The best antidote is - “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by doing this you will heap fiery coals on his head.” Do not let yourself be conquered by the evil, but keep conquering the evil with the good. - Romans 12:20,21

The verse just above that says - Return evil for evil to no one. Take into consideration what is fine from the viewpoint of all men. If possible, as far as it depends on YOU, be peaceable with all men.
-Romans 12:17,18
Yes it depends on you. You only have control over you. Be an example. stomp on evil unkind words and actions with good words and actions.

You probably know who this wise man was. And people still acted wicked around him. But it never affected his actions nor made him bitter. Because, he knew the truth.

[Abby-09]

okay thank u so much helps a lot ❤️

[TommyMountainFigure]

I don't know if you play chess, but the key to that game is to turn a disadvantage to an advantage, and whilst it is hard to see any advantages to what happened, I'm going to try,.. ok?
I'm sure you know there are some awful people out there who live to exploit children.. It is why courts make laws to try and protect you, and also why your parents do whatever they can to shield you from them.
What you experienced was a paedophile trying his best into manipulating you by saying nice things and then turning on you, merely because you never gave him what he wanted!
So what's the advantage in all of this? Hopefully, you will have learned that merely because someone gives you attention, or says what makes you feel good, it doesn't always mean they don't have sinister motives.
I don't know what relationship you have with your parents, but you asked what you do now. If at all possible, let them try and protect you a bit more..

[JessicaEarl]

Unfortunately this is the great sadness that comes with social media. It’s not fair that girls have to worry about this, but they do. Perhaps think twice in the future when you get the urge to post butt and bikini pics

[Abby-09]

Yes aggred but they where just snaps from the side not even bikini pics

[Stoner710]

Well then that guy is a creep and shouldn’t be hitting on you if you have the body of a 18 or a--year-old it makes kind of sense I tell you tell them to your age and I was Kets they should stop flirting with you

[Fa1con]

You have to disregard his opinion. It's normal to not be endowed at your age and not being endowed at all is not a problem either! He said those things after you rejected him because he wanted to hurt you, nothing more. He is clearly an unpleasant person who just wanted you to indulge him. You did a good thing by standing up for yourself!

[Abby-09]

Tysm hopefully I feel better now but I didn’t mean to hurt him but honestly he was getting annoying and I Rejeceted him really nicely

[Fa1con]

I believe you. It's a terrible spot he put you in; sometimes you have to be unkind to others to enforce your boundaries and this was one of those times.

[Abby-09]

exactly theirs another similar question I asked in my profile I posted it the other day would mean a lot if u have some advice

[Anonymous]

You can't control other people, only how you react to them.

You are always responsible for how you feel, you choose who's voice, who's opinion defines who you are and spoiler alert it should always be your voice who defines you.

So a pedophile that you rejected said some bad things about you, are you going to let that persons opinion or this bad experience define you and your life?

[Abby-09]

thank u but I mean I am kinda flat but only only by boobs but now I’m like done I have no confidence left

[Opinion Owner]

Your boobs are fine.

[Abby-09]

Tysm <3

[Deku2009]

Ignore the haters. how you handled yourself with him was the right thing he was a clear pervert . You have right to not show off revealing Pics of yourself if that isn’t your thing: sounded like he said that last part in anger which usually isn’t true. by the way girls with your size are attractive (every guy has a different opinion on beauty )

[Abby-09]

omgg Tysm agreed!

[Deku2009]

NP :)

[JohnK123]

Well I would report him…. I can get his Instagram reported if he has it just pm me hahaha
im sorry that happened

[Abby-09]

it’s fine I don’t want to make things worse but ty for the offer

[JohnK123]

Lmao he won’t know that I know u tho. I can just report his account. U don’t have to talk to the person before to report him. If u need someone to talk to let me know

[Abby-09]

okay and it’s fine cause it was on snap and Tysm!

[JohnK123]

Oh no worries haha ya if u want someone to talk to feel free anytime

[one1wild00]

Ignore the guy, sounds creepy. let yourself be a kid for another 4 years

[Abby-09]

i wish it’s so hard guys expectations are so high u have to have a big ass and tits, pretty, athletic, show some skin but don’t be a slut it’s just so hard

[Fa1con]

You should just focus on who you are and what you would like from life. Think about what schools you want to go to, what you want to do for work, how you like to spend your free time, what matters to you as a person. You can't live your whole life trying to appeal to others, it will leave you feeling empty and anxious.

[Abby-09]

Okay Tysm it’s just really hard but ty anyway

[one1wild00]

Be yourself, think what you do today will affect your future, yes, even at this young age, if you grow up being a "good girl" you will usually remain that, if you grow up "loose" that will follow you as well, some doors will remain open or close depending on what you do. but when it comes to how you dress / sexuality be a kid for the next 4 years you can and don't rush it.

[Abby-09]

thanks for the advice it honesty is really nixe to hear and see their are still good people in this world especially guys!

[clampfan101]

Forget about that idiot and keep your eye out for a mature guy.

[Abby-09]

okay thank u and he’s 4 years older then me and he still said shit

[clampfan101]

Also I’m sure you can easily find someone who finds your boobs attractive. I find all sizes attractive in their own way, and may prefer them on the small side.

[clampfan101]

Look for someone who loves who you are, of course. :)

[Abby-09]

omg tysm your so nice, I wish u the best and thank u for everything !

[clampfan101]

My pleasure. Feel free to PM me if you want. I’m not good at starting conversations, but I’m open to talking about anything.

[Abby-09]

okkk Tysm!!

[cootjuhh]

if a guy wants to jerk of on u he likes your body. so why no confidence left

[Abby-09]

true, but after I said I didn’t want him doing it or at least telling
Me that he kept body shaming me

[cootjuhh]

yeah true ☺️

[Abby-09]

so he didn’t mean it

[cootjuhh]

i think he didn't want bring your confidence down. just he brings it wrong

[Abby-09]

Maybe but he asked what I oooked like and I showed him and he saved them and said he knew some pedos and hated me pictures but was gonna show them the pics (not nudes just regular photo)

[cootjuhh]

that sucks. i guess he have never walked the same road of sending pics cause he is fake

[Abby-09]

True anyways ty

[cootjuhh]

hm i know how it feels darling ☺️ have done a lot worse then you

[Stoner710]

Your 14 wtf? Guys a creep just ignore him some guys are like that don’t take it personally

[Abby-09]

okay thank u and yeah just turned 14 the other day!

[FilmGuy93]

Creeps will always be creeps. The best thing you can do is wear what makes you comfortable and ignore the weirdos.

[Wise4myage]

Don't take what that clown said seriously or it will ruin your summer.

[Abby-09]

Okay Tysm!

[Wise4myage]

You're welcome. Always focus on the positive.

[Abby-09]

For sure ❤️

[RuthlessAggression]

This is why i dont think this young of age should be on here

[Abby-09]

Why? And it wasn’t on here it was on
Snap

[RuthlessAggression]

I don't care, it's too young

[Abby-09]

Okay good for u?

[ComingHere91]

U dont have to have big boobs and big ass tho
And ignore him

[Anonymous]

Get off TikTok; that app is run by the CCP to spy on Americans and incurage bad behavior by them.

[jeemm]

There's a chance you're right about the first two things you said but that last statement is completely false. I can only agree to it if you also say they will encourage the same behavior on Douyin (Chinese TikTok). The stuff you find on Douyin is the same as on TikTok.

[Guy13]

😱 😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱

[Abby-09]

Wdymmm

[WraithRogue04]

You just need to be careful with what you post.

[Abby-09]

it wasn’t posted tho somebody just asked what I looked like

[Paulychicagoluv]

Ignore the troll?