(16, m) here my friend (16, m) and my sister (18, f) are dating.. any advice or how to navigate this?

[Chadguy2007]

My sister and my friend are boyfriend and girlfriend and they are one grade level apart in high school. I have known him since elementary school and he loves to hold my sister’s hand in school when they are together and he will lead her to his locker and talk to her. He asked for my blessing before he asked her out and I was really happy for them but they can sometimes go a bit crazy on the pda. When he is over and hanging out with me, it is so chill and amazing!! If she is around, it is also chill and amazing but they flirt at times and he will sit her down on his lap and give her kisses on the cheek. My girlfriend thinks they are a cute couple but can be a bit too lovey dovey at times.

Even after her cheer practice and his football practice, he will carry her home, (he lives a few blocks away) and lay her down on the couch and cuddle with her. Me and my girlfriend do this a lot so I cannot blame them.

[Adam126]

You know what kid listen carefully! Don’t let anyone tell you the feelings you’re feeling are invalid and wrong because as a protector and brother (even if she is older you are the knight) it is your job to be analysing every move and action since it involves 2 important people in your life, realistically if you didn’t have feelings of anger and disgust without a doubt you’d be what my people refer to as a dayouth which in technical terms means a person who is apathetic or permissive with regard to unchaste behaviour by female relatives or a spouse. More specifically, dayouth describes a man who lacks the demeanor of paternalistic protectiveness with regard to female family members or his spouse. Or in short words a cuck and simp and pussy.

[DaBiggestBird]

Is it just a wee bit uncanny or something? I mean if you’re upset then you should have got her first, got a whole head start being siblings and everything like the turtle that beat a bunch of teenage Chinese ninjas without actually hitting them.

[RoseySarah]

Just to much pda?

Well have your parents say something or just say it's a bit much to your sister.

Have your girlfriend mention it!

Honestly it's harmless but she will probably get knocked up so get her on the pill!

Really it's all good till they break up which will happen unless they get married!

[strateguy632]

tell him you feel too much display p. d. a. to him not to her.

[OtterMan68]

your 18 year old sister is dating a 16 year old boy? She can't find anyone her own age? She going to go to his prom in two years?

[Chadguy2007]

It’s a year and a half basically

[Chadguy2007]

And he is a junior and she is a senior

[Anonymous]

she's 18, she should be dating guys who are 19,20,21,22


what she is doing is weird

[riverrat3]

Stay neutrel