How come men don't show black women love in mass?

[Anonymous]

[TheSpaceGnome]

What do you mean by "in mass"?

If you mean lots of people hitting on her, I don't think I'd want tons of guys hitting on my girlfriend/wife, and I don't hit on strangers (regardless of what color she is).

If you mean in churches, I only pick atheist women.

[NamerOfStars]

Because Mass is about God. Jesus was neither black nor a woman. There aren't any particular ethnic groups that ARE praised at Masses, unless you're part of a VERY odd Church.

[Anonymous]

you feel like other nationalities get more credit than black women

[Asker]

Everyone gets more credit than black women.

[Opinion Owner]

What type of credit do? Black women don't get.
Don't get

[Opinion Owner]

the whole package, personality, look, How she dresses

[BoopBoopBeep]

You should watch Kevin Samuels on youtube. RIP to a great man.

[Asker]

I do watch him. I'm not like that and I'm sure plenty aren't like that

[BoopBoopBeep]

As someone who has dated a great many black women, I'm sure plenty aren't as well. Some men don't want to play the guessing game, however.

[Asker]

If they were really attracted to them they would play the guessing game.

[Asker]

I think it's based on not being the standard of the European beauty men don't want to give us a chance.

[Asker]

I realized the closer I match the white image the more respect I get

[BoopBoopBeep]

Sorry. At the vet with a sick rescue kitten. I'll catch up now.

Games are still games. I find the further I get in adulthood the less I have time for those, and I pretty much hit my limit at 25-ish. Everybody gets a fair chance, sure, but my tolerance for BS is much lower, and I'm well past a point where I have one of those insecurities that younger men have that I'll never get another woman or something silly like that. If one brings drama to my home in the very generalized sense (which is more than just one of my houses, the physical structure) then unless one brings a lot to the table, I've little incentive to not give someone else that chance instead.

I don't think it has to be the "European beauty" unless we are broadly defining that as "not obese" which can hardly be considered a European beauty standard when the average African woman is 135lbs. I have met a great many beautiful Kenyan women and black South Africans. There are many African models who are seen as attractive by more than merely other Africans. In light of that, so we have a shared operational definition, how are we defining "european beauty" such that I may engage more productively?

I'm sorry in your experience it's been a respect thing as well. That is unfortunate and unkind. I may not be attracted to you but in no way does that justify anything but respect in return. Those who fail to realize that are surely doing you a favor by keeping you out of a relationship with them.

[RebelinSteel]

I don’t go to church and it would likely be the wrong setting.

[normalice]

My guess is because black women tend not to be in the sort of porn men prefer to watch.

[exitseven]

I hardly ever see anybody showing love while I am in Mass.

[Anonymous]

In America, black women (and men) are mostly a product of modern black culture, and that alone makes them a lot less desireable. Not all, but most.

[Surely]

Most of the time it is hard to separate them from the herd. Making it harder to strike up a conversation with them.

[OtterMan68]

you mean at a Catholic, Anglican, or Orthodox church service?

[dudeinohio]

Black. women. are awesome

[Anonymous]

Attitude and culture differences

[Asker]

Black men have the same culture though.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah black guys do but not other ones, and the attitude stays the same. It's not attractive.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats a bit of a stereotype.
For example Snoop Dog the rapper and Neil Tyson the astrophysicist are definitely not part of the same culture. The same applies to black women as well, and anyone else on the planet for that matter. Culture is not based on racial ethnicity, its based on individual preferences, which are genetically determined, but not in the inhereted sense, more the random roll of the dice sense.

[Opinion Owner]

And yet, more often than not, black girls have that same attitude. God, I have it

[TheSpaceGnome]

I prefer the cute, bubbly, kind hearted, lewd, creative types with above average intelligence.
If she has all that and shares my hobbies and interests, she could be neon blue for all I care.

[Opinion Owner]

And you're not the norm

[TheSpaceGnome]

There is no norm.

[guyinterested]

i love black women

[butterly248]

I never noticed this