As a male virgin who's only attracted to physically attractive women, and I got a boring passive nature, what chances if any can I get a hot girl?

[AndrewJordon99]

[Anonymous]

i'd say tough but not impossible , do you know any girls who are single and you find attractive?

there were a lot of girls at the bar last night looking to meet someone , almost like a post v day thing. like since they didn't have someone that day now they wanted someone a bit more. but i doubt it will last , some girls only seem to care about romance on valentines day then its like less of a priority

[AndrewJordon99]

All I've ever had with girls are contradictory attitudes and being told contradictory things. I've had girls that I considered attractive physically describe me as such, yet get turned down by average and even below average looking girls in the past, had one mock my appearance once too.

[handsomelad70]

Five-nine,160-165 lb. Jim Wynn hit 291 taters ( "home runs," for you non-seamheads-baseball fans) from 1963-77, an extreme pitchers' era in homer-suppressing ballplarks (the Astrodome, Dodger Stadium, Yankee Stadium for a right-handed bopper such as Wynn.) In other words, as Jim Wynn's power figures despite his small size and cavernous parks made him MLB's exception which proved the rule re. baseball's light-lashing litttle lads in its second deadball era, you better hope your the exception which proves the rule about average, boring chaps rarely getting babes. Good luck, boy !!!

[AndrewJordon99]

Oh, and 1 instance in school I remember: One girl was disgusted by me, like saying "Ew" in regards to me, that sort of thing. Granted, I had horrible hair. Later with normal looking hair, this girl all of a sudden asked if she could KISS me. See how frustrated and confused I am regarding where I stand with girls? Lmao

[Opinion Owner]

its one of those things you sort of have to keep trying until your going to get someone right? girls will turn down guys for fickle reasons especially if they have a lot of options as most physically attractive women do.

its weird i meet this one girl at a bar here , one the night we meet i asked if she wanted to do a shot with me at bar, she said yes but bartender slow and when shot came suddenly one of her girlfriend's ( who i wasn't attracted to ) came to do shot for her instead.

then about a month later i saw her at another bar and didn't talk to her but talked to this blonde girl she's friends with who is really hot. boy did she not like that one bit , despite not doing anything when she had the chance the though i liked her friend instead went over like wah

then last night i saw her again , she and blonde girl plus some girlfriend's at bar again. she was wearing this insanely hot red top too with awesome clevage. i left to go to a nearby country bar , weird about an hour later hot girl in red top showed up minus blonde friend ( unknown where she went? ) normally they never go to this bar , i asked her again if she wanted to do a shot , this time she said yes and actually came to bar and did it with me plus the other girlfriend's , its like they ditched the blonde girl and came to country bar to find me as they didn't seem to know anyone else there

[SolitarySolace]

Why would you want a hot girl? They're the entitled ones. They think the entire world revolves around them.

[AndrewJordon99]

Because I can't feel anything towards girls that I'm not physically attracted towards, it's just how I am.

[PeachyPie93]

Depends on how you look, if you are willing to make a move, and if you are good at socializing. If you are lacking in all area's it will be extremely hard to see that happen.

[AndrewJordon99]

Problem is I've felt much more secure with myself over recent years yet I was surprised to hear a woman describe me as nervous and awkward. I did not feel that way in that specific scenario.

[PeachyPie93]

Hmm. Strange I guess you are putting out that you are awkward, you should work on socializing more.

[AndrewJordon99]

Thing is, society seems to have a view of what confidence looks like, while I feel content with not socializing whatsoever unless I really need to. I guess that looks awkward to people

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah it could be because you aren't all smiley and talkative. But I'm not sure if you will get what you want if you go through life not conforming to society. Most people like friendly/conversational people so if you can be that way around people you like it might work out for you.

[AndrewJordon99]

It's so confusing because I hear contradictory things all the time. I recently heard some study that claimed that smiling agreeable men were ranked less attractive than stoic men.

[PeachyPie93]

No idea? Those are just the type of guys I am attracted to but maybe more people like stoic men?

[Billlewis]

Slim to none, and slim just left town;)

[Avicenna]

Almost zero