I would say that I dont prefer someone who is hot for 2 reasons, 1: society has made "hot" flawed in many ways, causing mass insecurities to women who are gorgeous by their own right, and 2: women who are considered "hot" are chased by men constantly, if not chased, definitely stared at, and that bothers the fuck out of me when I know a lot of men want a girl because although I am the most caring and sweetest person ever, I couldn't compare in physical attractiveness, and as this is not a world where only charm and personality matters to most people, I myself would be insecure and worry that I will be left for a good looking asshole 😂😥
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I can relate in some way since I'm not attracted to girls that are widely considered "hot", like bombshell big boobs and big round butt or anything of this sort.
I like a girl that is somewhat "plain" in comparison, but "pretty". I really like this word, "pretty". I became attracted to somewhat modest-looking slim girls over a period of time, perhaps simply because the first girl I became attracted towards fit this criteria.
She wasn't someone who would pull everyone's eyes towards her when she entered a room, but she was very pretty, and more so when you looked at her up close and studied her features.01 Reply- +1 y
There was an odd experience that maybe affected that. I slept with a girl who would probably be widely considered "hot" with slim waist, big boobs, nice round butt. She was sexy but when she undressed, she became "humanized" to me. Up close she had some imperfections, some rough spots on her skin, smell, everything.
After that I didn't consider it that big of a deal. Meanwhile with that first girl I fell for, even though she wasn't as eye-catching, when she undressed I saw a goddess. In spite of her flaws something about her body appealed to me a lot more, rather surprisingly, and after that I started to be more into that type of girl than the buxom bombshell.
I'ts just a matter of taste..
So Ronaldo is NOT MY TYPE AT ALL trust me... no ew
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But I am so into Sami Khedira...
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See... I have weird taste in men LOL...11 Reply
Girl you're fine. We all have our own tastes. I personally am more attracted to a rugged type of man that a chiseled one. We all have our type! Don't feel bad about it!
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Do you find abs, veiny arms, built body and jawlines attractive in guys?
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Lol 😂 are u still attracted to conventionally hot guys tho?
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I completely ignore them. They tend to be assholes. Growing up taught me they aren't nice people to women like me.
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Im sorry you feel this way:( i assure you not all hot guys are mean, actually the more nicer guys ik are actually on the hotter side
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Don't get me wrong. I've met a few. Key word a few








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You can't recognize something as hot and then clam it is not attractive. Both are one and the same. That's liek saying you don't like good paintings but then recognizing a paingint by Leonardo Da Vinci as a masterpiece - obviously you thought of it as good.
00 Reply I relate! Hot guys are always the centre of girls' attention. I like casual or cute boys 😂
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So ur not attracted to hot guys even a little?
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I am often turned off by women who look "too perfect."
I like those things about a girl that other people could consider flaws. I find them endearing.10 Reply - +1 y
No i think young guys are metrosexual and too pig headed
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Whats wrong with guys being metrosexual? And there's plenty of you g guy out there that aren't pigs
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LMAO what? Are you sure you aren't attracted to them, or are you just saying that to make yourself feel better because they don't like you?
00 Reply That makes sense. I find that I feel more into guys who are cute. They just steal my heart.
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So abs, built body, strong jawline dont do anythibg for you either?
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What if a guy looked like that irl and was highly intelligent and down to earth?
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So ur not rlly attracted by looks?
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I can be attracted by looks, but I don't get heart-fluttery crushes on ripped guys. And maybe it's just cuz all I see about them is their workout routines etc. probably they are a lot deeper than what I see online/hear them taking about with their friends. I guess I see the romantic sides of cute, sensitive guys a lot more so I see them as relationship material.
Me neither, they Are pretty to Look at but i'd Never Want to be in a relationship with one
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So ur not sttracted or u are but dont desire a relationship with one?
Also why wouldn't you seek a relationship with one?
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Do you mean that you prefer ugly to mediocre guys? Or are you saying you're just indifferent to looks?
00 Reply Define: Hot
Hotness is totally subjective, who you think is hot is not the same as everyone else. For example i don't see how people can call actres's like Megan Fox "Hot" when she doesn't have much going for her other than long legs00 Reply- +1 y
Well I relate I'm more into sweet, intelegent, caring, guys who have pudge
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So ur not attracted to abs, built body, strong jawline etc? Or u just prefer someone the way u described
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exactly the way I preferred
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But are u attracted to hot guys at all?
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I think those kind of guys are hot...
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Sorry i meant so ur not attracted to the conventionally hot guys?
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no I am not I go more for how a person acts rather than how they look but my taste is how I preferred with the pudgy tummy and sweetness and intelligence
Am attracted to cute girls. Always fall for them and not the sexy one :3
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No, I don't find them attractive either.
I never understood their appeal. :/
I much more prefer cute/adorable guys than hot ones.00 Reply Must be a reason. Maybe your not hot so you subconsciously feel they are out of your league?
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Yep, I can't relate lol I'm really attracted to hot guys
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Attracted in what way tho?
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Muscles, perfect jaw lines, beautiful eyes, gorgeous hair, and a sexy smile
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Is it sexual attraction or is it just admiration?
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Sexual attraction
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I think everybody has to define hotness for theirselfs, you dont have to be confused when you prefer other boys than your friends :)
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Do u find the sterotypical "hot" guys hot? Abs, muscular build, strong jawlines etc attractive?
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im not interested in Abs or muscular build... but i have to say i like strong jawlines..
what about you? what do you prefer? smaller or taller guys? - Asker+1 y
I love taller guys, I don't know im just not attracted to looks at all really
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I relate with you!! Sometimes hot guys are really empty and so superficial!! Looks dont last forever!!
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Not all hot guys tho! I just meant im not attracted to looks at all.
Are u attracted to hot guys a little bit?
I am not attracted to hot guys either
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Damn really?
if your not attracted to them then why would you call them hot? lol
00 Reply- Anonymous(36-45)+1 y
No. At least 15% are like that.
And I have gotten all of them for me during my life, lol :)00 Reply - +1 y
Do you mean conventionally hot guys?
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Yep like, abs, strong jawline, built body etc
Depends on what you define as hot
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Abs, muscular body, strong jawline, nice eyes, veiny arms
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What do you find hot in a man?
You don't understand because never seen one yet.
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I guess you wouldn't like me, then. -_-
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Your attracted to hot guys?
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yeahh riiiggghhhhtttt
00 Reply 451 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I'm not attracted to 10 girls either.
00 Reply2.4K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. You must be a lesbian
00 Reply- Anonymous(36-45)+1 y
I'm not attracted to a hot guy either. :P
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nope
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U are attracted?
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you are rare
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Apparently not lol most of the girls here feel the same
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