How can I tell if I’m a handsome man?

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Cause I get treated poorly on dating apps. Like a girl interested for one second then ghosted

Cody2004 · Accepted Answer

It all comes down to how you talk to them it doesn't matter if your handsome or not. People it does if you're dating it often is more worried about. I don't blame people for wanting to date good looking people I think it's completely natural and some people feel ashamed about that. You have to know how to talk to somebody and I'm not talking about just to get into their pants you have to show dignity and respect.

There's been several times because I don't care who I date you could be a male or female but I definitely understand the female aspect a little bit more because I get unsolicited photos that I don't want I also get sexual messages.

I'm going to put it this way I used to be at the most skinniest thing ever. I was self-conscious because of hearing sandwich jokes. I didn't start taking such seriously until I joined swimming club in high school. I have noticed that ever since I started taking my health seriously learning that there are workouts that prevent injury about 4 years ago I never worked out before ever. It took me getting messed up pretty badly to start taking that seriously having to go through physical therapy and learning this stuff that there are benefits to working out it can strengthen areas around bones muscles that can give support. I'm in the best shape of my life and all from just taking my health seriously and I have noticed it does get people's attention a bit more I don't like being half naked for no reason it's a weird to me just because of that initial sandwich jokes and stuff. I think this is also a good way to show that yes everybody worries about stuff. I don't think my opinion is really good here but it's more or less the showing that I understand not in the same way but I understand the worry feeling.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

This is how I know you're straight like me, you simply can't tell either am I right?

All I can judge about other men is fighting probabilities. My brain can only tell if I might be able to win a fight or not. Even when I look at myself... I simply can't tell. Anyways...

Find a "rate my pictures" site online. That's what I had to do. I'm ranging from 8.5 to 9.5 on a scale from 1 to 10 and I only know that because I just let people that know what I look like judge me on those sites.

RavenBear0 · Accepted Answer

So honestly it's not about the looks, it's more about the personality and what you say and do during that time and how you act and how confident you are, also I guess it can depend a little on the app, if you're using something like Tinder it's honestly just a fuck app but if you're looking for an actual relationship I highly recommend Boo, it's does this whole personality test and recommends people to you based off that and actually tells you who is interested in you and it can make it so much easier, I used it for maybe 2 months and ended up meeting the loml on there and everything for both of us just clicked so well and he had been getting told all these negative things from his ex about himself and when I met him nothing of what she said was true to me at all so it really just depends on the person and what it is you say and do and it's not so much about the looks.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Post your picture on the internet calling yourself ugly.

If people say you're fishing for compliments, then you're probably conventionally attractive. If people say "Oh no, you're not ugly!!" or try to encourage you to have more confidence, then you may be average looking.

Avicenna · Answer

That happens all the time on dating apps, even to guys most women would consider attractive. It's not a realistic metric. Keep in mind that no man is attractive to all women and some women you meet in public will find you attractive, but you'd never know because they keep things professional or don't have any interaction with you in the first place.

Pinay_ako · Answer

You can be handsome and still ghosted…

Nik1hil · Answer

Only 1 out of 10 man is handsome, it's Okay if you aren't handsome..

Become Rich and Famous.. that makes up for it..

There is no alternative to a female beauty...

But to a man's good look 😜 there is alternative like being rich to afford expensive pretty clothes and get groomed by barber.

Also being Famous means, A competition of Girls to get you and also it means social respect...

90% Girls would rather have a Rich string famous man.. Over a Good Looking, Weak, poor man!.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Stop relying on dating apps, as they are inherently shallow and being handsome doesn't mean good results.

Your personality, fashion, lifestyle, beliefs, or it being bad timing could set them off. Also, not every handsome guy is universally seen as that - people have types.

lightbulb27 · Answer

dating apps are painful, you can't.

you are handsome to the woman that you attract. the attraction is sub conscious. to get to that point, you have to get past her protective shield of defenses. that is social emotional skills.

so work on becoming your best authentic man and present that to real women in real life and see if one responds. tis much better than dwelling on things not relevant.

adam6402 · Answer

Girls will tell you you're handsome. I don't even consider myself good-looking but I get called handsome very regularly now, mainly at my job I guess. I'm tall and have a fit build but there are plenty of other better looking guys out there lol

HawkPerception · Answer

Dating apps are detrimental to men's self esteem and is not a reflection of their physical attraction level. Dating apps cater more to women, fueling their egos with the mass amount of attention they get. And because women get all of that attention, their attention span is extremely low and it takes something extraordinary to maintain their interest. So don't fret brother. We're all in the same boat.

Sonorous · Answer

Yeah don't rely on dating apps for this. Anyone sub7 in looks will be largely overlooked on there. And most guys are near a 5. Rely on objective ways of rating:

Kulotz · Answer

Dating apps don't prove you are handsome or not. You cannot make any implications about yourself through dating apps. Maybe the people you are talking to on dating apps are looking for something else. Self-esteem first.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

It’s simple & all you have to do is go to a zoo & if the monkeys throw bananas at you you’re not handsome.

Nikki1989 · Answer

You know, most people never take dating apps seriously, right?

SotiCoto · Answer

It doesn't matter. It really does not matter. Girls date ugly guys all the time. Heck, girls seem to fuckin love dating ugly guys. Everything is someone's fetish.

getwiththepg · Answer

Start looksmaxxing. Get lean for a chiseled jawline. Lift weights. Dress well, as in not wearing hoodies & sweats. Show more skin. These things seriously leveled me up.

Nirmroth · Answer

You get complimented by more people than just your mom

tzdc21 · Answer

Bro, that happens to all of us. No reason to feel like it's just you.

Yannae · Answer

When you apply to model at some big place and they wholeheartedly say yes.

Mediterraneansoul · Answer

You knownyur handsome when straight men start to do gay jokes toward you and women tease you

laly520 · Answer

I can give an opinion on it if I see u

Bricealan · Answer

Look in the mirror, unless you are blind?

JacobJordan · Answer

Do you feel like you are attractive?

sheikalana · Answer

You gets lots of attention from women.

Anonymous · Answer

By how girls react to you irl.

NathanDavis · Answer

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