How to tell if I'm attractive?

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It's hard to judge this for yourself so what are some signs that other people find me good-looking (or not, for that matter)?

Browneye57 · Accepted Answer

Seriously, look in the mirror and make an honest assessment. Do you look average, or like a super-model.

If you google examples of SMV (sexual market value) you'll find a chart of photo examples of the various levels. It's pretty easy to place ones self if they're honest about it. Most people artifically elevate their level a point or two.

Average - your normal every day person, like the girl or guy next door - a 5.
Above average is a 6 or 7.
Really hot and perfect is gonna be a 8 or a 9.

And there really is no 10, this is above celebrity or actor level, beause everyone has flaws. A 10 might be a 9 that means something special to their mate which makes them a 10. :)

Going the other way, if there are serious flaws or deformities, bad skin or teeth, mal-formed features, then down to a 2 or 3.

Really plain, an odd feature or two, maybe a 4.

Hideous, scary, deformed, just plain ugly is a 1.

And there ya have it.

Oh, and age and financial status also comes into play, but generally you can't tell financial by just looking. A young woman is always going to have a higher value than an older woman.

A woman's peak SMV is about 20-25 years old. After that they are starting to age. By thirty they have to compete with the 20-25 year olds. By forty we say they are hitting the wall - they are starting to wrinkle and sag, they simply can't compete with youth and beauty.

A man's peak value is 35-39 years. Men just age well. And if they're rich by then it can drive their value up another point or two. A rich, hot good looking 40yo guy can pull women from 20 to 60 - pretty much the entire age range of available women. Many will say though, why date a 50yo if you can snag a 30? :)

Haemoglobin · Accepted Answer

You turn heads. Pretty girls turn guys head on the street easily. A very attractive woman is going to turn both men and women heads. They gonna be like "Damn, look at that bish! She's must be getting all the good D, I'm so jelly!"

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If they hit on you a lot, if they give you free stuff, if they compliment you a lot

woody · Accepted Answer

How To Know If You Are Attractive There are many ways to gauge if you are attractive: The most common is probably through other people’s reactions to you. If you constantly get positive attention from the opposite sex and people seem to be drawn to you, then it’s a good indicator that you are attractive. Your own confidence is also a key factor in determining your attractiveness. If you believe that you are attractive, then you are more likely to project that confidence to others, which in turn makes you more attractive. There are also more objective ways to measure your attractiveness. Studies have shown that people who are considered attractive tend to have certain physical features, such as symmetrical faces, clear skin, and healthy hair. So, if you want to know if you are attractive, take a look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you like what you see. If you do, chances are other people will find you attractive as well.

Anonymous · Answer

When guys see you...

Kampaii_Vic · Answer

You don't get to acknowledge yourself as attractive. You leave it to other's to fill that role for you.

WalterRadio · Answer

The best way to find out is to compete in a beauty pageant. If you win, then you are attractive.

000_000 · Answer

Atractiveness is always going to be a subjective opinion.

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