How do you know if you're considered attractive?

[Anonymous]

Not averagely attractive, but really good looking. How does the opposite sex treat you, and how do you get treated on a daily basis by people?

[Anonymous]

It should be easier for a girl. As a guy, I think I can share my experience. Basically when I look myself in the mirror, based on my mood I can see just a good looking guy, not someone funny or weird looking. But many times random people complimented me of my looks. I can see 'wow' expression in their face. Except girl of age, I noticed people of all gender and age kind of stare at me, even turning their head. I can notice pleasing expression and smile in their face. In my daily life, random people smile at me and greet me. In clubs, pretty much every girl hit on me. Their photographers ask me to have a pic of me.

Now on the other side of coin, girls get nervous in front me. They think I'm already engaged and will not be interested to them. People somehow find me careless and unreliable. Sadly I never had problem to have ONS, but for longer term relationship, I never dated with anyone.

[IceCubedude]

when every girl is staring at you, hot girls can't keep their eyes off you, you're complemented by women you just met, you interact with girls with ease, you get numbers with ease.

[fermatote]

Are you talking about an attractive guy or a drop dead gorgeous god?

[misstums]

Honestly and truly, everyone is beautiful. Someone might not be what society thinks is beautiful, but there are always pieces of a person that are gorgeous, and those pieces make a whole person. Your worth does not equal your beauty. And besides, confidence MAKES beauty. If you're a chubby girl rocking a tight black dress with the confidence of a college football star, you're beautiful. If you're a skinny blonde girl dancing to trap music on that dance floor like you don't give a shit, you are gorgeous. If you're a dude ballin' with a belly pudge but you're confident and awesome, you are beautiful.

Beauty is a standard measured unfairly by society. I truly think everyone is beautiful. You just have to notice the things that truly matter.

[Elisa13]

I agree- and no matter who you are, you are beautiful to someone! Like I think this guy is drop dead gorgeous whereas one of my friends thinks his ugly (we are both straight)

[Anonymous]

I don't think that can be answered easily. A lot of very attractive people don't know they're attractive and a lot of unattractive people think they're very attractive... whether or not you'll ever accept how attractive you are depends on your self esteem.

Id imagine, if you are generally seen as attractive you'll get attention from the opposite sex. However other things can influence that such as behavior and how you dress and present yourself. So someone who's attractive may get less attention bc they're very shy and or have poor taste in clothes, hair, makeup etc. totally depends.

[LaFemmeFatale]

1. Almost every guy turns their head to see you in the street.
2. They approach and flirt with you.
3. Some of them are nervous around you.
4. Eye contact and smile
5. They feel happy when you talk with them and when you pay attention to them.
6. You are always in the center of guys attention.
***Trust actions more than words, sometimes the best compliments are unspoken ones.

[Errhh]

When I pass by a mirror I get shocked every time!!! I'm like omg!!! Who is that sexy girl? Oh it's just me!!!😁!!

Haha

And girls with bf's always seem to appear to be threatened by me 😨!! when I don't even look a their ugly bf's!! I guess if their eyes are set on me, I'm automatically a threat to them 😱!!

[Errhh]

And I would suppose if you're uglier and single, girls with bf's tend to treat you differently than if you are pretty and single... It's understandable.

Also if you pass by a mirror you're not shocked by your own beauty! 😂😂😂just kidding 😁😁!!
If you have a positive and nice personality anyone can find you attractive! Especially if you are average or above even more.

[Shorty1991]

Its not necessarily based on how many guys approach you. From what I see, most guys around our own age groups are too afraid of approaching women they like. If you notice plenty of guys staring at you or checking you out, then that's how you know if they find you attractive. They wouldn't look the road that your on if they thought that you were ugly.

[alaysatlorp]

I rate it by how many people look at my ass. I don't trust people because they'll tell me I'm attractive even if I'm not.

[xobrowneyedbeauty]

I used to think having men approach me meant I am attractive but now when random men approach me I assume they're just creepy and they hit on every girl. Maybe my self esteem is just not high enough I am going to hope that's the case haha

[Anonymous]

I've been told I'm really beautiful and everyone used to kiss my ass only bcs of that. But that sucks because people stay close to you only bcs you're beautiful and gorgeous. Only a few people are able to see the truth inside my heart. And they say that you more gorgeous inside than outside. But not many people understand my inner world.

[idkwtftoputhere]

u get laid everywhere u go.
Going to school? BAM u just got laid
Going to shop for groceries? BAMMM u just got laid

[Prettyapathetic]

If guys always hit on you.
If girls are always talking shit or are jealous
You get stares all the time.
you're of healthy weight.
You fit some kind of attractive criteria

[Ellarabbaa1]

Well when people compliment you a lot, when guys stare way too much and you be like stop staring for god's sake and they don't.. 🍷

[dudegrt09]

I don't know, you just know, you feel confident in yourself... I guess it's kind of an inner feeling or intuition which teels you whether you are good looking or not

[Miezko]

I can get girls without even trying to that's how I know.

[babeeeone]

Based on what people tell you and what you think of yourself

[idkthus]

My question would be how could you not know if you're attractive?

[Anonymous]

I guess you know if you get approached by guys a lot

[movie__nerd]

well it depends. movie quality or tv quality or like everyday quality?

[Anonymous]

post a picture on here and i'll give you a honest rating.

[Anonymous]

i hate when i get attention from bunch of ugly guys... better no attention at all, than like this

[BellePepper]

Are your features symmetrical?

[Yumix]

people will tell you, especially if you're a girl

[MikaC98]

I disagree. They will tell you, but you never know if it's just a lie. Most girls tell other girls that they're beautiful and gorgeous just because they feel the "need" to. Not because they want to. Know what I mean? I'm not so sure about guys though

[Yumix]

@MikaC98 maybe girls think like that, but most guys won't, at least not someone they are not friends with. And if you're very attractive, then you will draw a lot of attention from guys. They will hit on you, will stare, turn head, etc.

Of course not everyone, but enough to know after some time that many find you attractive.

[MikaC98]

That's good to know I guess xD

[reixun]

people will tell you.

[TonyRyanAgain]

I wonder the same thing.

[MissHope]

It's annoying...