How to know if you're attractive or not?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Getting hit on (though generally by older women 40-50s) geting liked on dating sites , getting chased by girls as a kid , ending up making with someone about 50% of the time i went out in university , geting hit on and frequently asked for a hug by one of my flatmates gay friends.
Getting told by some flatmates how lucky i am to be tall and a guy and to have such soft hair.
When i was 18 getting stopped walking home on Valentine's day buy a group of women and ending up sleeping with one of them and losing my virginity.
There where other i knew that got more attention than i did but i got enough that especially since i've never been the smoothest talker I knew i probly wasn't hideously ugly.

[greycadillacs]

Attractiveness is subjective, so it's hard. The best way would be to ask a bunch of strangers who are willing to be honest and fair, and that will give you a rough estimate. But there will still be plenty of people who find you attractive and plenty others who find you unattractive.

[Asker]

great answer indeed!

[greycadillacs]

Thank you

[greycadillacs]

Thanks for MHO!

[mankoneko]

You know when you attract! I had one guy come up to me on the train and profess my undying beauty to me. It was... an experience, but at least I know I'm attractive to some. And if you don't think you're attractive, chill. You're just not your own type!

[NyomiMcClinton]

Things like this, I dont care about. Vanity and I dont think about what someone else thinks of me. never cared about it

[DirectX]

first you have to be confident about yourself because different people have different perspective some people find you cute some say you are hot some say you are average so don't worry about what other and keep improving... looks is the 2nd thing people get attracted by a person personality... so see how people responds you when you approach them...

[Asker]

mostly people call me cute and boys crush over me but I wanna figure out is it because of my looks or personality or what

[DirectX]

it depends on both looks & personality but mainly personality..

[Dtegesd123]

I'd say ask people of your own race. If they don't think you are attractive, then you are probably average or ugly

[Chico_brah]

If you're desired by the opposite sex. Do you get hit on? Do you find it hard to find sex? Do you get complimented?

[IEat70sBush]

Are people trying to fuck you (sexually, not financially)? If yes then you are attractive. If not then no. That's a good rule of thumb.

[anastasiasgun]

Well there are men who will fuck any girl as long as she has a pussy

[IEat70sBush]

@anastasiasgun Yeah, true, but those are on ghetto sites like CL. Most guys have at least some standards more than that. I for one would rather just jack off to porn than have sex with an ugly girl (even with a 12-year dry spell). I suppose just post a pic/poll and ask for 1-10 ratings for a more accurate assessment, but even then that's only among the 1000 users here, probably not a big enough statistical sample to have a real meaning.

[Giantb3303]

That's next to impossible to answer. There are different tastes everywhere... what you find attractive your best friend could find subpar... just be confident in yourself. That's all that matters

[lord_chilled]

If you are attractive, people will look at you with desire. You will know

[Yanoa_Yanza]

I've been told several times that I am,, and I feel good about myself too :)

[LastNightmare]

Just come here on "HOW DO I LOOK?" I am sure you will get so many followers n liker. But before seeing you I wanna say to you that you are so unique and attractive

[SwolDishWasher]

People give you eye contact, smile, you get asked out a lot.

[John_Doesnt]

People will tell you you're attractive. If nobody tells you then you're no attractive.

[curiousnorway]

Sometimes that isn't true. Some people may find another person attractive, but are too shy to tell s/he.

[Arya_Christ]

Well easy.. if you look in the mirror and see your self then yeah you are attractive.. If you see a makeup bitch then no you are not attractive..

[curiousnorway]

There are people who thinks they are ugly, but everybody around them thinks they looks good. So you can't always trust yourself, since you often sees flaws other people doesn't see.

[Arya_Christ]

@curiousnorway hey brother.. I believe a level 5 beauty face can get a level 8 man if the attitude is right...

[blondfrog]

Look at the mirror and see if you give yourself a boner if not then your an ugo.

[Anonymous]

cuz chicks are queuing up to deepthroat my d**k - thats a sure sign

[Reitex]

Post a pic and I'll tell you.

[IsabelGuimaraes]

if you tend to attract

[NQQSE]

The direction people run in.

[ThisDudeHere]

You don't.

[Cartoonfish863]

My mum tells me

[curiousnorway]

Your parents can see if they thinks their children have a good appearance or not. But it's hard for parents to see if their child is attractive or not, since you're in a family and they are probably not attracted to you. If a person who isn't in your family or your girlfriend tells you that, then you can be sure they finds you attractive.