How can you tell if you're very attractive?

Question

What are the major signs?

ADFSDF1996 · Accepted Answer

1.) A group made up of the opposite sex gets quiet when you are around because they are busy admiring you
2.) The opposite sex gets nervous when speaking to you.
3.) The opposite sex smiles at you a lot and treats you better.
4.) You may overhear the opposite sex gossiping about how attractive you are.
5.) constant glances from the opposite sex.
6.) If you are a female, a lot of guys will flirt with you/make the first move. If you are a guy, women will give you hints like smiling while gently biting their bottom lips when looking at you or speaking with you.
7.) A lot of compliments from the opposite sex.

BeMuse · Accepted Answer

Some indicators I’ve experienced more than once

1) When you're minding your own business and apparently tons of people of the opposite sex are ogling you so much that people of your sex that you have never met notice and start talking about it right in front of you.

2) When you’re minding your own business and someone of your sex loses their shit and has a total mental breakdown out of insecurity thinking you’re trying to steal their girlfriend/wife just for existing.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Your life will be difficult because people will hate you for no reason, men included. Then they will try to be your friends, then be mean again. The hot and cold attitude is usually a dead give away, also people stare at you as if you have something in your teeth, then get angry at you to cover up the fact that they were staring. Sometimes you get bullied for no reason, and sense a bit of obsession from people. They also want you to always think you're so much worse then everyone else, even though they refuse to leave you alone, because I mean, if you were so repulsed, why bother me when I don't even remember you exist.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Unless you have a good body , you are bound to look average. I consider myself attractive because , I know that my body is curvy and beautiful. If you tell me your body measurements and height , I can tell you if you could be beautiful or not.

deLéman · Answer

Honestly, I'm not too sure because I'm not certain whether I'm truly attractive or average. However, from my experience, people tend to visibly react to my presence.

For example, guys are either mean or really friendly to me for no reason. The mean ones tend to act insecure while the friendly ones act really inclusive and treat me like "a bro." I guess they either view me as a threat or as an equal.

As for the women, most tend to either purposely act disinterested or overly interested by giggling waaay too much. While it boosts my ego, the latter tends to make me really nervous and want to back off. The former makes me really confused because I always feel like I unintentionally offended them.

Also, I'm kinda concerned about whether I'm actually funny or just really likeable because almost everyone laughs and smiles at me when I speak, even when I'm not trying to be funny.

Anyway, I have a pretty crappy personality that only a few people can tolerate for an extended period of time, so it doesn't really matter whether I'm physically attractive or not😂

ichighost · Answer

I think that's how you can tell. Other people's perception usually give off that vibe. I've been told that I'm handsome and I've been with hot girls and regular girls so I don't think I'm not attractive. But the hundreds of messages on IG or any other social media from girls that are not friends doesn't happen to me. I think being a guy and getting that many messages from girls means you're very attractive. A girl you really can't gauge until other girls put you in that situation because you are a female there's guys 3 times your age that will try to talk to you because you're a girl. But once another girl gives you those eyes or attitude because you're hotter then yeah you're very attractive to them that could change once your environment changes with a different group of females

ASEXY · Answer

If you have all or most of the physical traits (tall, facial symmetry, clear glowing skin, etc.) that make a person considered conventionally/universally attractive. For example, your facial features look similar to models and celebrities. If most people agree that you're very attractive and a lot of people tell you that you're very attractive. If people want to take you out on dates and fight over you (you have a lot of competition trying to fight over you and your attention). If a lot of people flirt with you or try to seduce you. If you looked good throughout your whole life, even through puberty. For example, I was very attractive for a newborn, while most newborns are ugly. If you look really good in photos and in the mirror. If you are considered "model material" in the fashion world.

Selina_Kyle_ · Answer

I don't think it has any value if the others or ones I care about do not think of me.

However, if you are really attractive person and you are not able to show that to someone, you can just describe yourself in both looks and personality? Everyone is different.

Eryxx · Answer

You get a lot of attention from the opposite gender. People stare at you wherever you go.

devilish-cutie · Answer

guys stare at me all the time
whenever im nice to any guy most of them creep on me at some point
can't have male friends cause they mostly at some point always see me as romantic interest
im self aware and know i have small nose, good facial features and good body shape

GoodManDave · Answer

I’m not, so these are educated guesses.

People tell you.

Guys hit on you, ask you out. You flirt, they flirt back. Guys will “get caught” staring more often.

You get free stuff or special discounts a lot, usually from guys.

You probably work in modeling of some kind.

ak667 · Answer

I actually tie it to how other people treat you, your social appeal, and to both sexes, and I'm not necessarily talking about homosexuals. But in my mind "attractive" doesn't have entirely to do with the shape of your body. I would consider personality traits like charisma and confidence and social skills increasing your "attractiveness" in person, and all helping you with everything from making friends to getting dates.

cutekid · Answer

Most times, you get lots of compliments from people especially your friend's family members whenever you come around cos they can't just ignore the fact that you re very attractive and the way people tend to stare at you consciously and subconsciously cos you are ignorantly and definitely going to catch most peoples eyes while walking on the road or getting stuffs in a store...

Anonymous · Answer

Any time I go out without my husband guys approach me and ask for my number. I've had it happen a few times going through the drive through. My mom brags about me and posts pics of me on Facebook and her friends and coworkers always comment that I'm pretty etc. My best friend and my husband tells me I'm beautiful every day. That's good enough for me.

TallJamaican1991 · Answer

I always thought that two good signs that you are atteactive is if people stare at you or if people compliment you often. Neither of these things happen to me so I'm assuming I'm not attractive, but that's something I've come to terms with. I understand that I can't be everything I want to be in life.

Logorithim · Answer

Lots of friendly attention from the opposite sex. Lots of people telling you that you are.

JSmuve · Answer

Guys stare at you with giant tentpoles in their trousers.

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

If you're a guy, you can't, because guys basically never ever get attention. If you're a girl, you get shit tons of likes and all that garbage on your pics on social media and dudes staring at you in person, maybe sometimes coming up to you at bars offering to buy you drinks.

Heolurt · Answer

When, you're approached by strangers not to tell you that you're ugly but instead they give you compliments and told how attractive you are.

When you have pretty privilege but aren't aware you have it because getting everything handed to you has always been something natural.

DoctorSex · Answer

Being attractive as a woman means absolutely fuck all, don't invest too much time in it. A man would have sex with a girl who was a 6/10 if she begged for it enough and the situation was right 9 times out of 10

winterfox10 · Answer

When the opposite sex let's you get away with a lot of stuff that no one else seems to get away with.

Anonymous · Answer

I guess if you get a lot of good attention or stares from the opposite sex.

xKARMA · Answer

People smile and look at you and you get complimented more often. They approach you. When you post selfies on social media you get instant likes and positive feedback. Stuff like that.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

When you are attractive, you usually hear comments about that frequently from people other than your momma and your daddy.

AbdKilani · Answer

Ask in G@G... Easy I thought I was just your average man, well okay most of my friends were like you are a player because you look good.  But I didn't believe them much.

babymels333 · Answer

just know you are. have confidence in yourself and know you are good enough. being attractive isn't your face or body, its your confidence and attitude you put out.

Anonymous · Answer

If that was the case then they would all approach me and want to talk to me, flirt, get my number, or connect with me on social media etc. so nope I'm not attractive at all. I keep to myself mostly anyway.

ThisAndThat · Answer

The only way I know how to answer your question is this way. I have this pair of shoes over here (insert symbolism there), that I've walked in for 54 years. You'll know you're not attractive by the time you take them off.

Kayla45 · Answer

If men stop and look at you with cartoon hearts in their eyes lol

Sublime45 · Answer

If people shun you away and outright hate you, then apparently you're unattractive. Source: I'm ugly.

genericname85 · Answer

yeah it's very easy to tell, cause everyone tells you. harder to tell is if you're ugly. cause nobody tells you that you're ugly. you'll have to figure that out yourself.

zagor · Answer

People look at you as if shocked and stutter when speaking to you.

Chromekids · Answer

People treat you better. The opposite sex get nervous around you and smile more.

colaman94 · Answer

Even I look in the 🪞👀 and express "damn, man, I'm looking fine" as would the ladies 😁 ♀️

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

Haven't got a clue, I don't get stares or approached really.

Wolframium · Answer

Well, I know I can tell I'm not attractive. :-D Or! Or I just…don't meet new people. That could be it as well. :-D

AmcG792 · Answer

I believe that attractiveness is a subjective thing... Someone may think that you are very attractive whereas others may not... It's just about finding someone who does

abundantlyrich · Answer

Do a tally and see how many guys r interested in total?

rafflesia · Answer

you have an amazing personality like myself & a sense of humor

pooper89 · Answer

Hmm usually people just tell you. No other surefire way to know

Benardking · Answer

You know you aren't if you have to ask this. #TheTruthHurts

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Put up a pic and see what the perverts on here have to say

Giggletr0n · Answer

1) Find any reflective surface 2 Look at your reflection 3) MIND BLOWN!

AcidT0y · Answer

I can tell when I look in the mirror and think "I wish I could fuck me" 😂

Night_Angel · Answer

If everyone says I'm attractive, then I'm attractive.

Clyde_123 · Answer

You are very attractive if you get more compliments than the average person.

boimofo · Answer

people compliment you and people think you're attractive thus they try to flirt with you.

Decentguy · Answer

if you look like me then you are attractive, if you dont look like me, then you are not attractive

stormbreaker06 · Answer

by accepting it and appreciating the qualities that you have.

Anonymous · Answer

If a guy is looking at you and you can see any movement going on in the crotch area of his pants, you're probably very attractive.

valualty · Answer

You get smiled at more and treated better by strangers

Clarke498 · Answer

I have no idea. I might be good looking, but have no idea.

Evan94 · Answer

I'd imagine I would have more girls talking to me if I was attractive

Emma889 · Answer

I guess judging now your own beauty is like listening to your voice recording: it’s always awful to you.

Anonymous · Answer

You can never really tell because everyone has their own definition of beautiful , you’ll always be ugly to some people and beautiful to others.🤷🏾‍♀️

coonhater420 · Answer

because ur shockingly ugly it leaves the in a sedated mindspace

shawntii · Answer

Is this the same girl being narcissistic or is every girl here narcissistic

Anonymous · Answer

NOT ON SOCIAL MEDIA!!

4ormoresymbols · Answer

Well if you catch some glances it's usually a sign.

passinby · Answer

Sexual attention that carries through often.

Anonymous · Answer

Attention from guys often and when you look in the mirror you can usually tell

Anonymous · Answer

If all womans are trying to looking at me then im attractive

Anonymous · Answer

"If you're very attractive". Seems you know that. (peachykeen21, I miss you)

Anonymous · Answer

I just look in the mirror. That's how I know.

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