How to know if your date wasn’t attracted to you?

[Anonymous]

What are some signs

even if he were a gentleman in other ways

[boggboss]

With the extreams of him seeming repulsed by you I dont think their are signs

[laly520]

he isn't into u
clearly

[Asker]

That wasn’t my question

[laly520]

its all u need to know
I have read ur replies n its obvious he isn't into u
so better not waste time

[Asker]

Yeah but he could have said that. He was only interested in sex.

[laly520]

just like majority of guys
stay safe girl

[Asker]

It’s okay to be interested in sex. It’s not okay to be deceiving.

Especially when I told him I wasn’t interested in anything serious or casual…

But I did confront him and asked if that’s all he wanted. He said he didn’t want to go back and forth with me because I misunderstand what he says.

[Iron_Man]

if he doesn’t call back again

[Asker]

…. He didn’t call for a second date.

[Iron_Man]

How long has it been now?

[Asker]

I told him thank you etc after the date and I told him I made it home… he said “same here, thanks for reaching out “ I asked him how he felt it went… crickets… but there were some hints on the date..

It was 3 weeks.. I reached out 4 times … he did offer closure tho…

[Iron_Man]

Are you going to date him again? It’s up to you.

[Asker]

No … he’s not interested

He mentioned sex and not wanting to invest if we weren’t going to have sex. … but he said he wasn’t ready for a relationship.

Then he tried to down me bc I post suggestive pics.. he asked me if my dad would approve of them.

[Iron_Man]

He just wants sex move on

[Asker]

Yeah but why insult the way I dress

[Iron_Man]

He’s acting stupid maybe just keep him as a friend he is probably mad because he’s not getting sex. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket with the guy that just wants sex. Don’t allow it

[Asker]

Oh that’s why he tried to insult me… bc I wanted to wait until marriage? I thought he was jealous

I never thought he would treat me like that. I lowkey cry about often but o well

Thanks

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome. I wish you the best of luck on whatever you decide.

[Asker]

Ummm I never plan on talking to him.

I would love to slap him ☺️

[Asker]

I wish I didn’t take the jabs and disrespect

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry about that

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@asker you're a high quality woman if you're saving yourself for marriage. Don't give a crap about a low quality male 😂

[BarryLiverstone]

Smh, not again

[Asker]

You said I wasn’t hot

[BarryLiverstone]

You keep asking anon. Just use your gag name

[BarryLiverstone]

You only knew what I answered because I used my gag account. I didn’t hide

[BarryLiverstone]

You said below that it’s not ok to be deceiving

[Asker]

Bro you called me ugly like … uh ok

[BarryLiverstone]

You literally asked for honesty. I said you are not hot. Why ask for brutal honesty and then shame? That’s never ok

[Asker]

But I want to be hot. Don’t you get it

How can I be besides the weight loss.

[BarryLiverstone]

I get it. Lose weight. People who are healthier look better.

[Asker]

Okay but is that going to make me become hot?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes, it will help

[Asker]

You don’t think I’m naturally pretty/hot?

[BarryLiverstone]

Can’t tell. Do you have a pic of when you had a healthy weight?

[Asker]

No asshole