What does that mean when a man say “Will you be a good girl?”?

[Anonymous]

[RebelinSteel]

That he’s potentially an arsehole, is immature, watches too much porn, is incapable of an adult conversation, the latter as if was capable of an adult conversation, he would discuss it first and explain.

[Asker]

he said that in a context where I was walking around and talking to people a lot during in an event. he was sitting down with a bunch of his friends from work. and I think he got overstimulated seeing me like that. grabbed my forearm and said will you sit down while holding my hand down and said will you be a good girl. he is older than you and i

[RebelinSteel]

That is a bit controlling in a bad way, possible feels vulnerable, personally you don’t need to come out with that type of thing.

[Asker]

how can u tell it is a bit controlling if he didn’t say it in a harsh tone or body language

[RebelinSteel]

By the fact it was said

[slatyb]

It means he wants a Dom/Sub relationship, at least some of the time. What do you want?

[Asker]

🙈🙈

[Yannae]

Be good. Behave. Obey. One of these.

[Anonymous]

Will you take it in the ass

[Asker]

only if I trust and like him enough but other than that no effin way

[Opinion Owner]

No, I mean that is an example of what the question means. Basically will you do whatever he wants.

[Asker]

only if I allow him to

[Anonymous]

He thinks you misbehave a lot.