Obviously a relationship reaches a point where you're both comfortable with each other, but you should also both be continuing to put in effort. Any successful long term relationship that I've seen - both the husband and wife are continuously showing their love for each other in lots of little ways and occasionally big ways as well.
"not remembering my birthday and not wanting to , tell me stop digging in his life when I ask to know more about his family and he says things like he pushes people away if they deep too deep and smallest things like a 5 minute phone call during the day or a goodnight message when his away , stupid things I told him nicely I want, just a bit of effort and he makes the excuse he has work what must he do"
Honestly, I think you're receiving horrible advice for your question. I don't know how you can read this and not see massive bright flashing red warning signs that this isn't a healthy relationship. If I were in your shoes and a woman were treating me like that, I would end things immediately.
Take this as a lesson in the future to recognize these red flags and pick better men. Both guys and girls seem to have this attitude of "I can fix him/her!" No you can't. Focus on being a good person yourself and date ugly people with good attitudes that don't need fixing.
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Don't you just hate that. I'm sometimes glad I'm single when I hear or read things like that. Lol. "Stops putting effort in" and before you know it they're lazier, heavier and just all around a pain and crude/cruel. Lol. Maybe I'm glad I'm single 🫠👍🏻
Isn’t that more or less the same thing?
I know people tend to out more effort into things at the start and then as time goes on everyone gets more comfortable, but if you feel that there is a lack of effort then that’s not good.it’s obviously affecting you as you are asking about it, so I’d bring it up to see what he says. In a non confrontational way of course, but just a wee check in how things are going.
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It's hard to tell a lot of the time. You should know your partner well enough to sense when something is wrong, but if they aren't communicating well, it's left to your imagination.
By communicating! Why does no one ever think to just talk to their boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband. Why does it always fall on strangers to tell you that your first step is to communicate. Come on people!!!
do they still hold their farts in, or do they just let them rip next to you?
If they still hide them they are still into you, if they just rip them off they either don't care, or are just comfortable with you.Do the treat you differently if the do then that says it all
talk to them
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