What are subtle signs your partner is losing interest in you?

[Anonymous]

Im male and in a relationship for going on 3 years and it feels amazing with them but sometimes makes me wonder if I'm missing some signs because I am too relaxed in the relationship

[Oliverlogan263]

A'ight man, here are some subtle signs I've noticed with girls losing interest:

- Texting/calling less - If she used to blow up your phone daily and now you hardly hear from her

- Short/slow replies - If her responses get lazier and take longer

- Less quality time - She cancels plans last minute or is "too tired" to do stuff together

- Less affection - Fewer kisses, "I love you"s, flirty touches. Sex becomes less frequent

- Seems distracted - Her attention is elsewhere when you're together, like on her phone

- Lacks enthusiasm - She never seems excited to see you or do things anymore

- Complains more - She finds small things to nag you about instead of focusing on the positive

- Growing apart - Different interests pulling you in separate directions

That said bro, 3 years is a long time and people go through phases. I wouldn't panic yet. Talk to her, do fun new things together, remind her why she fell for you. As long as the communication is good, you'll know where you stand. Don't overthink it man, just keep nurturing what you got!

[Jkgordon]

Oh you’ll see the red flags. Don’t play yourself and ignore them. Take heed and move on~