Men, what do you determine whether a woman is to be girlfriend/ wife material to a girl you only intend on having a shallow sexual relationship with?

[Raeannox]

[Yannae]

My SO is very sexual. I am not at all starved over here. That said, she didn't show any of that when we were just hanging out or dating. I've gotten to know her before doing anything sexual with her.

She's a baddie and as much as I wanted to, I didn't make that my first priority. Because I'm not looking to sleep around. I'm looking for a partner to stay with. Whenever a woman throws herself at me for sex, I'm not sure where her priorities lie.

You can bond through sex, of course, but if that's her main way of trying to win me over, I won't be convinced that it's going to last.

My SO she said that she was interested, but needed time. We spent a lot of time together, cuddled. I've gotten to know her as a potential partner first. Not as a partner in bed. I've gotten to learn what she finds important in friendship, a relationship, what she's looking for. I've been seeing her for a few months.

What determines how I see her? The time I spent getting to know her and the overall chemistry.

[JacobJordan]

The way she dresses, talks, heavy make up, drinking, partying, smoking, drugs, body count 3+. Since I don't do casual sex I looked for a wife and then I married the girl. She is perfect. Feminine, modest, kind, caring, respectful, soft, gentle, no make up, was a virgin same as me when we met. We lost our virginity to each other. She doesn't drink, smoke, party, or do drugs. And she dresses like a woman.

[HungTexan]

It depends on a lot of things. When you first meet someone, it starts with physical attraction, and may move to sex. Fisheries acres emotional and physical intimacy you will start thinking longer term. You don’t overthink it.

[Shiningtempest]

@Raeannox I determine she's a girlfriend/wife material if she has no ex-boyfriend (s), didn't go through divorce, zero sex partners, dislikes traveling, enjoys anime & manga, & values free time over advancing career.

[Raeannox]

What moral/ values do you value the most?

[Shiningtempest]

@Raeannox Moral (s) I value the most are being faithful, kindness, & not being a jerk.

[genericname85]

for both a girlfriend and a shallow sexual relationship, she should be physically attractive to me. the difference to a girlfriend/wife is that she must also be attractive character wise.

[Brucewayne123]

Hey @Raeannox can you message me? We used to talk on here all the time my name was loverofbooty. I miss ya and would love to catch up.

[Anonymous]

Easy, there's no such thing as only having a shallow sexual relationship with. I either want something meaningful with her or I don't want ANYTHING at all. But a lot of that will depend on her.

[JayBones]

Wife material is conservative, chaste and nurturing. The other one is run through, stupid, and easy.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's is determined by what qualities she brings to the table if you want me to be more specific hit me up

[slatyb]

I don't do that second thing.

[laly520]

that takes long time to be determined

[Cazaputas]

If she is rude or promiscuous.

[BarryLiverstone]

Date her and see how she acts

[In_Trance]

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