Have you ever dated a single mom?

[daniel]

Do you have any experience on dating single moms? Is it hard? Does it need more understanding and compensation?

[haynes]

I've dated a single mom before, and as you can guess it is different from dating a woman without a child. But it is not all negative there is difficulties of course, but there were positive sides. I will list some.

Difficulties:

Scheduling: The biggest challenge was scheduling. When you date someone without a child, making plans is pretty straightforward. With a single mom, we had to work around her child's schedule, which meant our plans could change last minute if something came up, like her kid getting sick or having a school event.
Priorities: Her child was her top priority, which is totally understandable, but it meant that sometimes our relationship had to take a backseat. This is a big contrast to dating someone without a child, where the relationship can often be the main focus for both of you.
Taking Things Slow: We had to take things slow, especially when it came to meeting her child and becoming a part of their lives.

Positives:

Maturity: Dating a single mom brought a level of maturity and seriousness to the relationship that I hadn't experienced before. She had responsibilities and didn't have time for games, which I really respected.
Learning Experience: It taught me a lot about patience, understanding, and supporting someone else in a way that's not just about the two of us. I learned to be more considerate and to think about the well-being of her child, too.
Strong Bond: When you overcome challenges together, it builds a strong bond. Working through the scheduling conflicts, understanding her priorities, and eventually becoming a part of her child's life in a meaningful way brought us closer.

[Peter_Penetrator]

The older her kids are, the harder it is going to be for a new man to influence their personalities and behaviors.


I was 30 when l married a 42 year old single mother who had one kid that was 17 and another that was 23.


I am now divorced from her. When her and her ex husband were still together, they allowed their 17 year old to drop out of……drum roll please….. the 8th grade. With all that free time on his hands he was up to no good. Then my ex wife cheated on her ex husband and then left him for the new guy. With the 17 year old being without a father in the house, that 17 year old really started fucking up.


So, if you date a single woman with kids, make sure that they are still young enough to be influenced by you. Also, watch out for the jealous ex husband because you are now spending the vast majority of your time living under the same roof of this other dude’s kids.


But for me to date a single mom with kids all depends on their ages. Other than that l have no issues. Besides, if you are young enough yourself, this is a good time to test out your parental patience.

[Billlewis]

Yes, I have, and one of the most exciting aspects of dating a single mom is being able to babysit her kid (s) while she's spending some quality time with another guy.

[Elliegirl]

I don’t date other women, so no. I’m married, but if the unthinkable happens and I have to start dating again, I would be a single mom and okay with dating a single dad.

[dustybiker2]

It depends on the mother. Also depends on what you are looking for. It might be easier if she already has her footing and outlook on life set.

[bobalife]

Single dads, yes. It’s a lot of patience and understanding.

[Drumlin2001]

I did start to date one. Never met the kids, we were still at getting to know you stage so we're only meeting up when she didn't have the kids. Didn't work out due her her insecurities, not the kids

[normalice]

Thats impossible as once you are dating her she is no longer single.

[slatyb]

If you can't love the children and enjoy being around them, don't do it.

[JacobJordan]

Why would I do that. I don't want to raise another man's kids.

[genericname85]

no and i wouldn't. not gonna fix another mans and her fuck ups.

[Sameone]

I never date single mom
But i think they better than normal women

[dudeinohio]

Yes. Not too difficult if you can realize she'll prioritize her kids.

[TM_KO_AF]

If her husband/baby daddy didn't want her
y would i wanna be her superhero rescue
add glue fix the broken
boyfriend

[TM_KO_AF]

and babysitter
fck no

[Anonymous]

Dated? No. But I’ve put one through my mattress. And my couch. And my floor...

[Nikki1989]

Yes I have. Single dads too.

[tzdc21]

Nope and I don't ever plan to.

[sheikalana]

No. But I'm married to a single dad tho.

[garykingg]

No and I would never intend to.

[handsomelad70]

No, and I wouldn't.

[jahaims]

No I have self respect

[RossyBoi]

No, I haven't.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Not something I'm looking for.

[DreamLife7]

🤣🤣

[QuietRunner]

yes

they liked a lot of sex too

[BLP11520]

Yes twice

[riverrat3]

I married one

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Yes, plenty.