This happens to me a lot with single mothers who likes me but after her childrens / kids blood father hears about her dating again he's comes back in the picture and wants to reconcile with her then wins her back. No matter if they'll on good terms or not. Hate becomes love. I know it sucks but that's how it is 🤷🏻♂️
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I'm still friends with them people!
Have you dated / liked someone who is a single mother then later on, she went back to her kids baby daddy's?
If there's a pattern, it's a clear message to you that you're repeatedly making the same mistake. Time to make changes, and in this case do not date single moms.
Find women are focused on you and who don't have some other guy in the picture. Project strength, not weakness (and taking care of some other guy's kid is weakness).
It's also a sign of weakness if you remain "friends" with these women after they do this to you. That makes you an orbiter hanging around in the hope she'll come back.
They were always focus on me but after while an old lover pops up into the picture and he wants her back and want to reconcile with her and start where they left off. When it comes either first or old loves girls always wants that back!
No. Never happened. 1. I dont date single moms 2. Ill be friends with benefits with them but none ever told me they won't fuck me anymore and left for the ex
I've never gone back to my ex-husband in 10 years when he committed adultery with a single mom. Would never see myself with the guy after that. Lmao. You know what you want after a certain age.
As a single person with no kids I like to stay away from the baby mama and baby daddy drama. Some wouldn’t mind but I couldn’t do it. It’s a pass for me.
Stop dating single moms, no guys should be doing that stupid shit when there are a plethora of women available that don't have all of the problems that come along with that.
True but single parents are still people. Like I told someone else if a single parent who works at a cellular store gives you either IPhone pro max or a Samsung Galaxy ultra 8k after you buy the plan would you still rejected them or if a single parent works at the USPS who delivers your mail and bills do you. do you still reject them from giving your unpaid bills to you! 🤔 I don't understand why you guys don't like good single parents and what did they ever did to you guys 🤷🏻♂️🙄
Are you daft? Your post literally gives a good reason to not want to date a single mommy, you are beta bucks raising another man's kid while taking all the responsibility without any of the authority. Invest your time into women that do not have children.
Most single woman around my age ranges are heavily career orienterd. Their always too busy with their jobs and they mostly sleeps with their co workers. My ex girlfriend choose her job over me and now she makes 3x more money now then when we were together. She really loves her job and travels overseas while on her job. It's all about the Benjamin's 💵 but no she has no time for romantic times but she wants a dick to suck on then she either find a co worker or a janitor 🤷🏻♂️
You need to vet the women you are allowing into your life dude, these "career oriented" women are basically acting like dude's but have a pussy. Go for women that are a few years younger and that aren't wrapped up in the idea of chasing careers instead of being a good wife/mother of YOUR kids.
Then younger women mostly after doctors, nurses and all local law enforcements. I don't date women who dated or sleep with cops because the last cop brought his service weapon to the fight and he won is ex girlfriend back. Thats how things are where I'm from.
I'm not trying to bust your balls here but there has to be something you have that is of value or women to want to see you as their best possible option. And no it isn't always money. Are you fit? Do you dress well? Have you ever participated in combat sports? Do you have anything going on in your life that you make a priority other than your job and women?
I had woman who only dates skinny guys then after I lost all the weight then they still reject me because they now want only chubby / big guys / husky guys. When I got the weight back then its back to skinny guys again. This is ALL from different peoples 🤷🏻♂️
Then the issue has more to do with how you're interacting with them. I don't know what you typically do in relationships but there are a ton of dudes that but into the fairy tale bullshit that Disney moves and other forms of media say they should in order to win women's attraction. None of that works, a good book for you to give a read if you want some prospective is doc love the system.
I'm always 100% true to myself and I know how to talk to them and I've read a couple books but each girl who I talk too or they talk to me they always gives rejections from talking to them.
Example
Girl number 1: I only date black guys / chocolate boys 👨🏿
Girl number 2: I only date Mexicans who cooks me tacos and spicy burritos very night 👨🏽
Then the weight rejections start then the short other excuses with rejections like I only date guys with blonde hairs and etc and etc
I even been rejected from a single mole I have!! 🙄🤷🏻♂️
Thank God, I haven't; but it happened to a guy I know. She was still sleeping with her child's father. This is just one of many reasons I would never date a woman who has even one kid.
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women stick around their exes far more then men. fucking them on the side and get mad when you bring up how close they are to them. women are not trust worthy especially single mothers. even if they've been abused by their ex they'll still go back. deep down I think we all know when are more likely to cheat then men.
She imprinted on him when she had his child so her loyalty was already written in stone. You should do your research on single moms bro, itll save you a lot of time and resources
Like I told people I'm still friends with them and other single parents. Also My younger brother is married to one for over 10 years now and her ex boyfriend is not and won't ever be in the picture because of his drug problems. Trust me she'll never go back to him so the written in store thing is crap. Again single parents are still good people. So if a single parent who works a your local carrier who gives you either a iPhone pro max or a Samsung Galaxy ultra 8K phone I'm guessing you'll reject them from giving your new phone because their a single parent and you rather have either a kid or a married representative to give you a new phone I'm not sure how you paid your bills if you dont trusts mail persons who could be singles parents. Do you argue with the mailman all the time and ask them if there single then you always have to give them hell all the time. I'm sure the 5 0 have lots of records and complaints from you. Oh yeah.. I'm sure you also fight with them too because they could be single parents pay child support 🔫
That’s not nice my younger brother married one because her ex treated her very badly and single parents are still human too. So if a single parent delivers your mail you’ll always reject it. Right? 🙄
Umm I don't have to date the mail man? 🤷♀️ Couldn't care less whether he has 20 kids or none. There's nothing mean/not nice about having preferences and avoiding dates I believe Im not compatible with. Not any different from someone who doesn't want to date somebody half their age, right? I think twice about a single dad coz our relationship also involves his kids and if we break up, the kids and I will never see each other too. And I wouldn't want the kids to suffer and go through a series of their parents lovers
Lol I really don't know where you got single parents are not human in my answer 🤷♀️ I said I never date single dads and I don't want to. But apparently according to you, it's mean to not want to date any human 😂
I'm guessing you paid all your bills online because you don't like anybody from USPS or UPS delivering your mail our handling your packages because someone can be single parents. Right? Must be hard getting food from places because you don't trust single parents cooking your foods. I'm not sure how you eat foods if they we're possibly processed from single parents 🤷🏻♂️
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