Would you ever date someone who had a best friend that was hot and single?

[coachTanthony]

Yes I am secure in myself

Hell no I would be too jealous

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[zeitgeist057]

yes 100% and as a guy who has had those hot single friends I can say of course we considered it or maybe we've even hooked up in the past, but for whatever reason we decided to just be friends. Sometimes the chemistry for romance/sex just isn't there and I've definitely had some hot (platonic) girlfriends that I knew everyone else was into, but I just didn't feel attracted to them. I even tried, thinking I must be crazy, but it wasn't the same as when I truly was feeling someone's vibe.

So I don't know, I think it's fine if my partner has an attractive friend. They are not perfect and have their own things to deal with as well.

Caveat is that i am poly, so even if they want to hook up with their friend, I'm not jealous about it. I get my wants and needs met, I don't care to discourage anyone else from getting theirs as well <3

[Miristheiss]

Of the opposite sex?

No. I would never have gotten serious with a woman who hung out alone with another man or wanted to hang out alone with other guys.

If it was a girl I wouldn't care unless she wanted to out to clubs with her and this girl was alwaysbtrying to get her to go partying and act single.

[bobalife]

Love is blurry to me, the only person I’d be devoted and pay attention to is my person. No one else matter to me in the way my person will. There’s a ton of good looking people but it doesn’t matter and shouldn’t be easily distracted when I choose to be with someone, loves someone, and commit to them. Therefore, it don’t matter if their bestie is attractive or not. If it matters, then, it’s quite sad how easy that is for someone just because they looked “hot” or attractive.

[picachixa]

Depends. If she seems to keep the boundaries. If my boyfriend keeps boundaries. I won't feel comfortable with them being together alone. If she seems to be interested in having a friendship with me as well.

And most importantly if my boyfriend doesn't seem to have any romantic interest in them. Then I am ok with it. (And trust me. I will know if ya lying)

[HawkPerception]

If the friend was the opposite sex to the person I'd be dating and they're extremely attractive, no. I probably couldn't. Call it insecure or whatever. I believe men and women can be friends, but I also think that if someone is attractive, vibes with the person and has spent many years and have history together, there's a high chance they would be a match but don't want to confess in case they ruin a friendship.

[IslaTheWitch]

My best friend is attractive AF and a serial single... :D

I wouldn't have any problem if the man I met had an attractive female best friend; maybe our best friends could be together? :D

[RebelinSteel]

I have in the past and no doubt will in the future, just because they are hot and single does not make them the most desirable between the one you are dating and the hot one.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea cause I know worst case if he even tries anything I can pumble til he's no longer attractive 🙂✊

[coachTanthony]

You would do that over a woman? lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea, dude I've done it for smaller reasons before, something people would catch on quick about is how territorial I am with my women, a woman is actually a valid reason 😂

[coachTanthony]

LOL okay

[HighValue]

Even if the friend is very ugly and 100+ pounds overweight, her having a Male friend and hanging out with him one on one would be unacceptable.

[Nikki1989]

Date?

I married one.

[WhitneySnow]

A best friend of the opposite gender? Yes, I would. I would trust them not to cheat.

[sage2021]

No, I think it would just cause friction. Plus there is the cheating factor.

[NathanDavis]

yes, I have... and yes, they've done it in my case as well

[Joshydavid25]

I mean I would, and then he could be both our friend.. Cause I would be her new best friend, so all other friends go to the back burner baby..

[GregorSamsa]

Figure out which one you're attracted to really and date THEM. Don't play games.

[JHAYES317]

As long as they had never dated or had sex or kissed before, assuming the guy didn’t seem to be into her, yeah I got no issue with it

[KrakenAttackin]

No, that is foolish. She is likely crushing for him and wants to use you to make him jealous.

[Alex-Snow]

Sure it would be fun to hang out with both of them from time to time

[msc545]

I've done this and what happened is exactly what you would expect...

[clampfan101]

I’d want to be like “so tell me about your friend.” lol But I’d probably end up too shy.

[Luopio27]

I dont get the question!

[coachTanthony]

Would you date someone who is always hanging out with some other dude that is super good looking that she calls a "friend"?

[Luopio27]

Yes I would. I dont like being a dominant asshole who tells her who she can or cannot be friends with.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. Because maybe I don't like her best friend. Maybe I think she's a cunt.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't cheat on him just cos his friend is hot and single. I'm not a cheater.

[robhazelnut]

If I were to date at all, that'd be fine.