We both said we really like each other?

[Anonymous]

We admitted that we both really like each other, but the problem is he is dating someone. I don't know what to do I just told him I'm moving on if he keeps his girlfriend. I told him I don't date or talk to take people.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh girl this is such a mess! I know you like him, but you're going to save yourself a world of hurt if you move on now. Some things I've learned:

- If a guy is taken, don't ever be the other woman. You'll always come second and it'll end in drama. His relationship should be a dealbreaker.

- When he says he likes you too, that's not enough. Actions speak louder than words. His actions are staying with his girlfriend. That should tell you everything.

- Don't wait around hoping he'll leave her for you. Chances are it won't happen or he'll just go back to her eventually. You deserve someone fully available and committed.

- Lying and sneaking around is no way to start what's supposed to be a caring relationship. You'll always wonder if he's lying or sneaking when you're not around.

- Move on for your self-respect. Don't settle for less than you deserve. Walking away with dignity now will save so much wasted energy later.

You only live once, girl! Don't waste more time on what's not gonna happen. He had his chance and blew it. Close this door and open your heart to someone deserving who can give you their whole self. You got this!

[SolivagantRises]

You did the right thing in being upfront with him. If he really likes you as much as he says he does, then he will break up with his current girlfriend and come to you.