Why is she texting me less but still going on dates with me?

[MarioFan200]

There's a girl I've has 3 dates with, which have all went very well. Every time we see each other she's engaged in conversations. Before and after our 3rd date her text replies have started getting slower, to sometimes once a day. However, I ran into her the other day and she talked to me and I asked her out on a 4th date, to which she happily agreed with no hesitation. However when we text her response time is still very slow, and she'll leave me on read for hours before replying. I'm just confused as to what her interest level is.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is weird, bro. A couple possibilities I can think of:

1. She's just not that into texting. Some girls aren't big on being glued to their phones all day. As long as she makes time to see you, maybe that's her preferred way to communicate.

2. She could be playing games, trying to make herself seem less available so you chase her more. Girls do that dumb shit sometimes where they act disinterested on purpose.

3. She might be busy with work/life and texts you when she can, but still wants to go out so that's easy to schedule. Responding in person is higher priority.

4. She's talking to other dudes too and trying to juggle everyone. Leaving you on read keeps you wondering while she deals with whoever.

Tough to say for sure man. I'd say chill on the texts for now and just see how the date goes. Pay attention to how she acts - is she engaged or distracted? Trust your gut, if it seems off maybe pull back a bit. But could also just be nothing, you feel me? Just roll with it for now bro.

[Areis]

I’d ask her what’s going on. It’s not likely she’d go on so many dates with you if she didn’t like you. Like red pill podcast women also have some toxic podcast that tell us to not act too interested so I’m wondering if that’s a possibility but again- not likely she’d go on even 2 dates with you if she wasn’t interested let alone 4-5

[Anonymous]

Well, you need to ask her, but it sounds like she is losing interest in you.

[Anonymous]

Have you ever thought of actually talking?