Is she ignoring me? Do I keep texting her?

[BHooper]

Im friends with a girl who use to work me and we use to spend so much time together. She doesn't work with me any more and we said we'd plan to hang out all the time. We've only hung out once and its been at least 2 months. I messaged her and it took her a week to reply, saying she was busy with her new job. I messaged again but she hasn't replied. Do I keep trying to message her? We were super close. W use to sit in her car after work and talk to 1am (we'd finish at 11pm). She has a boyfriend and the friendship was strictly platonic. So do I continue to message her or is she ignoring me?

[MementoMori777]

She isn't interested, sorry bro, I know cause when was the last time anyone spends a whole week not being on their phone for like 5 seconds to even reply to a text, don't keep messaging her or it would come off as desperate and she would be repulsed by it even more, you can't force a girl to like you, it's just the way it is.

[Anonymous]

I would ignore you too if you were annoying me with texts. If you have something to say, just say it.

The funny part is you say you are “super close.” 🤣

[BHooper]

We are super close. You don't know our friendship. I opened up about my struggles with depression, suicide attempts and my body dismorphia. She opened up about her struggles and traumas that you have no business knowing. I'm texting her to find out when she is free. I'm not annoying her.

[TracyF]

Forget her, loose her number and move on.

[BHooper]

I can't just forget her. She isn't just someone from work. She is my friend. A good friend. I can't just forget about her.

[TracyF]

Then wait for her to talk to you. Pushing people only pushes them away. Be calm and casual, and a friend.