Should I ask her out again?

[killadrummer]

So there’s this girl that I’ve known for 4 years and we have dated twice but she ended it both times. I still see her every now and then but just keep it casual and when I talk to her I make sure to keep it super quick. Every time I see her now, I know that she is still interested in me and is always super flirty. She has even complained to me about not seeing me much anymore. I don't know if she wants me to ask her out again or if I should just let it be. I feel as if she would say yes to go out again but I’m not sure it’s the right thing to do. Any opinions are appreciated.

[Caramalkisses23]

Girls are complicated people... Honestly, humans are! You dates this girl and she ended it both times? Why? I'm trying to find the right words to explain but I'll just give you an example instead. I broke up with my EX. I did not want him. However, out of lonliness, I would wonder what he is doing so I'll reach out. Wants I relaize he still wants me- I would ghost him. Not intentionally trying to be mean but because i wondered if he still cared. Basically, sometimes people will notice a change and want reassurance. Because you're acting uninterested- maybe she wants you to be interested again. It doesn't mean she wants you tho... She just want you to like her. I know that's stupid but you'll be surprised. This may not be the case in your situation but it can be a possibility. So my answer to you is- move on.

[rosemilk]

you dated her 2 times. she broke up with you twice. why bother trying again? her flirty behavior is just how she is.

[SolivagantRises]

You need to think if she is really worth it. Because she broke up with you twice. That's got to take a toll on your emotional side, no? You've gotta remember how you felt at that time and for whatever reasons she ended things with you both times. And, I cannot emphasize this more, you've GOTTA move on.

[JacobJordan]

Move on mate not for her sake but for yours. You asked her out twice before and she broke it off twice before. Sure they say 3rd times the charm. But really dragging you along because she refuses to accept her feelings shows how little she cares about introspection

[Billlewis]

Do whatever you want to do. There's nothing right or wrong about either choice, as far as I can tell.

[Anonymous]

My recommendation to you is to have some self respect. And don't listen to any pink trying to tell you that women are complicated. I can predict and even plot exactly what all of them will do in their relationships...

[KrakenAttackin]

No, she only wants you on her simp bench for validation

[slatyb]

Go ahead. Asking is free.

[laly520]

u can try

[JayBones]

Nonthats stupid