Should I or should I not?

[DL1210]

I am at the beginning of this relationship and i my girlfriend sort of got used to me to driving her to work on Monday and Wednesday (the day she works at a kindergarden) but i feel like an uber driver rather than her boyfriend since she sits in the back (she says she hates the seatbelt rule...) and sometimes doesn't talk at all. For tomorrow, i am thinking to do it or not... she has been a bit distant lately though... advice?

[Selene1600000]

If driving her is starting to feel one sided and unappreciated, stop doing it automatically and see if she notices the effort you bring. Sitting in the back while you drive her around would honestly bother most guys because it creates distance instead of connection. A dating coach for men would tell you to pay attention to actions, not excuses, and make sure the relationship feels mutual early on.

[laly520]

have u tried discussing it with her?

[DL1210]

She is very cold towards me, we went from kissing and hugging to thank you and kisses ( verbally...). She is annoyed if i try to talk to her by messages and annoyed if i don't talk to her in the car...

[DL1210]

What do you make of it? I am losing my mind.

[laly520]

I think the relationship is over

[DL1210]

Me too... juat waiting to hear it from her. So i can be in peace.

[laly520]

or u can end it urself n be in peace

[DL1210]

I... can't do it

[laly520]

it isn't wise to stay
it will affect ur mental health

[DL1210]

I know, but the only way i feel light hearted is when she writes.

[laly520]

ig u r just used to her presence n texts which what keeps u attached to her

[DL1210]

Yes, that is right... i admit

[laly520]

I doubt u r ok with wasting ur time n effort soo

[DL1210]

Thank you for your time and effort, but i will continue to fight this... as a fool i am

[strateguy632]

i think that is reasonable part of a partnership in relationships, because after jobs you are back together hanging out.

[DL1210]

We are hanging out rarely and she is kinda cold to me.

[noohair]

She is weird.

[DL1210]

Very... very...