She wanted me to feel loved?

[Anonymous]

Been talking to this girl for over a month. See each other once a week and spend a lot of 1 on 1 time together. Not dating, more of a situationship.

Last time I saw her, she gave me a little gift. She said that because gift giving is a way I like to show my love, she wanted to make me feel loved.

I don't know what that means. Does this imply she loves me? Or she just wanted to do something nice?

I know I should just ask her... but we haven't talked about love yet (besides like love languages)

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, it's definitely sounding like she's really into you if she's going out of her way to get you a gift just to make you feel loved. I know things haven't been super clearly defined between you guys yet, but girls don't usually do stuff like that for guys they're just kinda seeing. The "love languages" thing she mentioned is also a good sign - sounds like she's been putting some real thought into how to show you she cares.

I know it can be nerve-wracking trying to figure out exactly where you stand, but it seems pretty clear from what you said that she wants you to know you're important to her, even if she isn't ready to slap a "boyfriend" label on it yet. Next time you're hanging out alone, I'd just go with the flow and see where the night leads - maybe try holding her hand or giving her a quick kiss goodnight if the moment feels right. That could give you a better sense of how open she might be to moving things to the next level between you.

Even if you don't make a big romantic move, just enjoying your time together and keeping the lines of real communication open is probably the best bet for now. The last thing you want is to scare her off by pressuring her before she's ready. Keep showing her you care through your actions too. Things seem to be going well so far - I'd say just roll with it and see where things naturally progress from here. Hope this helps man, let me know if anything else happens!

[bobby_bush_eater]

Man go for it. Don't waste any more time on it. I've been in situationships several times and every time it's stupid in hindsight. It sounds like she really likes you, be clear in your intentions and go for it

[Nikki1989]

It is just a nice gesture. Don't overthink it.