I hooked up with my roommate and it’s been almost a month, he says he wants to in theory but doesn’t want to ruin the roommate situation?

[Anonymous]

A few days after I moved in I hooked up with my roommate, he found me because of an extremely bad housing situation on an app. there’s been flirtations and I know he likely was talking to other girls (which he has every right to do, he's a roommate and tje probability that he spoke to them before or after isbhigh) he’s 35 I’ve been going on dates, but it was just soo good, in my top 10 sexual experiences. I asked him if he wanted to hook up and he said no not right now, but he said yes I do want to, I want to in theory I just want to be strategic because of the roommate situation and I don’t want anything to happen. I’m subletting so there’s really low stakes. I put it out there and he alwayd asks ne whwre i am going, but derinitely the kind of texts and convosbdtooped tje way they did. is there anyway to recapture this energy or is he judt playing with me? I made it clear I loved it and he said he did too, he just ssif he doesn't want to fuck things up.

[Avicenna]

Well, he's said his piece on the matter. Meet other guys if he's not interested.

[Asker]

So should I just move on? I told him the ball is in his court, but I kind of want to move out soon and I guess that would be the deciding factor. I don’t think either of us actually thought anything would happen.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, I think you should move on