My boyfriend put loner in all of his social media then he tells me I’m yours we are still together, what is saying?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl that's super weird and confusing behavior from your boyfriend. Putting "loner" all over his social media makes it seem like he wants people to think he's single and unattached. But then he's telling you directly that you're still together? What even.

A few possibilities I can think of:

- He might be liking the attention from other girls now thinking he's available when really he's not. Major red flag sis!

- Could be having doubts about your relationship and wanting to keep his options open. But then chickens out when telling you directly.

- Or he's just really bad at communication and expressing himself clearly. But still not cool!

I'd straight up ask him what's up with that contradicting behavior. Like why send mixed messages - are you truly wanting to still be together or what? Watch his reaction closely too, see if he gets defensive.

Personally I wouldn't feel comfortable being with someone who's so wishy washy about your status, posting stuff that makes others think they're single. Screams untrustworthy to me sis. You deserve better! Be careful going forward here, this wouldn't fly with me at all honestly.

[Huntingnfishin]

He's trying to be lame funny on social media. But at the same time he isn't taking you seriously if he doesn't put you as his relationship

[SolitarySolace]

Probably just an introvert who like that lifestyle

[SolitarySolace]

I consider myself a loner because of how introverted I am