Girls, Why does a girl become passive-aggressive when I suggest she lose weight while we're dating?

[Magiqian]

Our subsequent chat often revolve around this remark

[SueShe]

Your acting is a huge red flag and I personally would not tolerate that someone I barely know tells me how I have to behave, look or how I have to dress.

You are on the initial stages yet you already want to impose your will onto her. You were apparently okay with her weight before you were dating otherwise you would not even have started dating her.

I am quite certain that there are a number of things that she dislikes about you but she does not seem to make such a big fuss about them as you do because of a few extra pounds.

[petitedollbabee]

Because you’re only in the dating stage and you’re already suggesting that she changes for you. Why are you dating her if you’re unhappy with her weight.

[Nikki1989]

So you are just dating and already think you have the right to control. She deserves better.

[Booklover_90]

How often do you bring it up?

[Magiqian]

It happened just once, but I attempted to diffuse the situation by changing the topic and avoiding bringing it up again. However, she keeps bringing it back into conversation. I genuinely have no issue with her weight, and I find myself questioning why I even mentioned it. I'm unsure how to move past this comment, and if this pattern continues, I fear it will become suffocating.