Guys, do you care more about the personality or looks? (Page 2)

Question

What if you click with someone extremely well but she's not the prettiest. Can her personality make you more attracted to her and you would be able to overlook some flaws or would you rather wait for a prettier girl who meets your aesthetic standards more? Personality/connection or looks?

onedarkcloud · Answer

I think it is both that count. That is a personal observation. I think life has to be a blend of a little of everything. We all have flaws as much as we think we are perfect, and I am very far from perfect

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

Looks make me interested in getting a first date but no personality, no second date.

Slim57 · Answer

Personality, there are tons of good looking women in the world but few with good personalities to match

RHK36 · Answer

Need both unless it something casual in which case it really doesn't matter as long as the chemistry is there.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Personality means the most to me.

tzdc21 · Answer

Looks get you through the door. But beauty means absolutely nothing without character.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Both. Where I have my own definition of ''pretty''.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

The looks are ultra important. Then I'll zero in on the personality. Then, it's decision time 😄

DubbsActual · Answer

Men are visual. There is a certain esthetic level women have to meet. Having said that, in the long run the personalities have to be symbiotic, or it's doomed to failure.

OtterMan68 · Answer

Yes, I would hate being with a gorgeous woman who was a rude, low IQ, shallow jerk

Wiredone · Answer

Her personality is first and foremost. I don't care if she isn't a beauty queen.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Originally, looks but to keep our relationship, she'd need a girlish, bubbly personality.

Anonymous · Answer

A woman's personality, character, values and attitudes are the most important things, but I have to be physically attracted to her too.

Pohjolan · Answer

Look wise there is a certain threshold but after that personality matters more.

Bobby88t · Answer

The persinality is more important and pretty legs:)

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Personality by 1,000%. Looks fade and you can't fix stupid.

ShadowHunter123 · Answer

Now don't get me wrong, I love a good personality. However, it's the looks that attracts the guy. I would have never even looked at the girl I love if it wasn't for her... uhm, ass. ;)

mayurr · Answer

Too much of anything is a turnoff for me. I choose balanced one.

Abdulwahh · Answer

More about looks but personality is definitely important i dont like rude girls.

Ulvin · Answer

I feel both have to be present to some degree or it will never last.

soe11 · Answer

Both (two sides of one coin)

JHAYES317 · Answer

Short term? Looks  Long term? Personality

goebenbreslau · Answer

both. the balance matters.

dudeinohio · Answer

Absolutely personality can win me over.

LockedinChastity801 · Answer

Personality for sure!

lightbulb27 · Answer

Personality

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Equally

I_am_a_human · Answer

Personality.

jahaims · Answer

Both are important

BarryLiverstone · Answer

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Guys, do you care more about the personality or looks? (Page 2)

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Personality means the most to me.

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