Are you more into looks or personality?

[Anonymous]

Do you think you are more looks or personality? Or a good balance of both? 🤔

[FreyaRed]

Personality is overrated. It's better to have average personality but outstanding looks than having outstanding personality but just average looks. Human nature is superficial, people who deny that are rather victims than beneficiaries of this fact.

[Asker]

I disagree, without a personality, you can't have a actual connection with a person, it will all be superficial and fake, I believe going for looks and just physical looks is superficial, if people did it less, the successful marriage rates would be much higher.

[Still-alive]

try to not speak for everyone please. you come across as super arrogant. which i guess you probably don't care about that but still.

[FreyaRed]

@Still-alive Arrogance is pseudo self-confidence, I don't think it fits to my comment. I'm maybe charming like a wrecking ball sometimes, but when you want to tell me people don't care a lot about physical appearance I consider you being dishonest.

[Still-alive]

it's an individual thing not a general thing.

anyways you do you i guess.

[FreyaRed]

@ChicoFromThe305
I mentioned average personality, not lack of personality. Of course in long run is good appearance not a solution for any problem because even pretty people go abandoned, exploited and betrayed like everyone else. However people with outstanding personality aren't immune against bad things in relationships either.
Some people say first impression is important and here has good looks a massive positive impact that leads often to positive escalation in introduction to potential partners. For showing great personality is often lot of time important, unless a person has high social status and very positive reputation. How many times a person with great personality will be rejected in first 30 seconds just because of insufficient looks?
In such cases great personality means nothing because it's irrelevant and the person hasn't even opportunity to show it.

[Kingofkings1992]

Definitely not true. You said the reverse of what it is reality. Looks are very much overrated

[Deszcc]

@freyared usually it’s average looking people that tend to get married and stay together.

[dynamicyandere]

Human nature is superficial. True. But, that’s why I look for people who have more developed character and don’t conform to society’s degeneracy. If the average person is superficial, I don’t want to date the average person. I’ll become above average in character, so I can find someone else, who likewise is above average in character.

[Anonymous]

Looks are important. I have to be sexually attracted to them to have any desire to have sex and I have to potentially wake up to them every morning.

However, personality is what ultimately makes you fall in love with a person. How much chemistry you have with someone is the most important thing in a relationship.

[Asker]

Yep I agree with everything you said but I'm asking you personally do you believe you are more physical attraction or personality? Lol

[Opinion Owner]

Personality trumps looks for me, but realistically I look for both.

[Asker]

Alright bro

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@HawkPerception He's asking you if your looks are better than your personality.

[Opinion Owner]

@PrettyCrumblBb Oh the way the question is phrases it's hard to tell. I think my looks are average but I think my personality is decent. So again I think my personality still trumps my looks

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@HawkPerception
You think your looks are average? 🤔
So that's not really you in the picture, huh?

[Opinion Owner]

@PrettyCrumblBb I'd be happy to add you on snap and send a picture of me doing whatever you want me to do to prove I'm real haha... I'm no catfish and I think people who do catfish others are pathetic

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@HawkPerception
I don't have a snap

[Opinion Owner]

Instagram then?

[PrettyCrumblBb]

What's ur Insta?

[Opinion Owner]

Ayer93

[Opinion Owner]

I'm dumb for putting that here haha

[aceleon]

my preferences or my own qualities
either way, well i don't know if you ask what traits of myself is more attractive i would say my looks since appearantly i have bad attitude, selfish, aggressive, impatient, reckless, sarcastic, egoistic and cruel.

[IslaTheWitch]

Personality, who this person is, how feels, reacts, if we have matching interests, points of view, if we can communicate, discuss, laugh...

Looks are appreciated but not required :D

[Asker]

I'll take your word on it Isla and I do agree, personality can really attract a person to the point looks have no importance or better, the person's looks start growing on the other individual 🙂

[IslaTheWitch]

Yeah, it's true... and to be honest it's a process worthy to be observed. How we change the way of perceiving the person who attracted us.

[Asker]

Yep it is indeed interesting and fascinating Isla 🤣

[mono_gram]

Personality. I would want to be with someone that I get along with well (and vice versa)/matches with me well. Looks could be important too, but I feel like if you really like a person for who they truly are then you can sort of overlook the looks/it wouldn’t matter so much.

No matter how hot/pretty/good looking/etc someone is, you shouldn’t be with someone if their personality is trash.

[Asker]

I agree mono, very wise words 💯

[dynamicyandere]

I put a lot of weight on personality and character and I have quite high standards for that.


So, if someone meets those standards, but are average-looking, they will be more attractive to me than someone who’s very physically attractive but doesn’t meet the non-physical standards I have.


I want a strong and meaningful emotional bond with whoever I’m with.


I’d rather have a top 1% emotional bond with someone, rather be with someone who has top 1% looks but we lack intimacy.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Hmmm depends on who you ask. I know I have a lot of personality, but I also know most people mostly notice my looks... specifically my "personalititties" as my boyfriend puts it

[Asker]

Sounds like you've got a good balance, your boyfriend was thinking of your boobs when he came up with that which says you have good breasts but that's besides the point, if you aren't overhyping your personality then you probably have a good balance going.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Yeeaah he's a boob man. You're comment is much appreciated

[Asker]

💯💯

[Moirine]

Personality (humility and kind hearted) builds a home and looks... not so much unfortunately. Some think their looks make up for their lack of personality (shit personality) but at the end of the day it's the heart.

[Asker]

Yep, doesn't work like that at all, like I always say, looks is just a lure, the personality is the hook 🤣

[sage2021]

Definitely his personality. I know I am an older woman, but I still like to have a guy that is fun to be with and make me laugh. It's especially fun when I make him laugh too 🥰🤭😋🤗

[Asker]

Nothing shameful about that, no matter the age we all like to have a fun time. 🙂💯

[sage2021]

@ChicoFromThe305
💯 I'm not near 💯 but close 🤭

[Asker]

Well I hope you get there sage 😊

[sage2021]

@thank you! 🙂

[Asker]

💯💯

[sage2021]

@ChicoFromThe305
Oops, I sent you a reply but I screwed up your username.
Anyway thank you for your last comment. 🙂

[Asker]

Don't worry, I received the message anyways and no problem sage 😆💯

[Joshydavid25]

That's a good question honestly.. Probably looks though.. I have a pretty "interesting" personality, and I feel like I have character, but what most people will pay attention to is the looks TBH..

[Asker]

Fair enough lol

[Joshydavid25]

But it's probably more balanced though, because a lot of people do like my personality once they get to know me.. I'm just an easy going, laid back, goofball..

[Asker]

Then a balance it is ha

[Joshydavid25]

[Asker]

Lmao bruh I still can't do this 😤

[Joshydavid25]

I tried it and I can do it with phone.. I don't know if that counts.. Lmao..

[Asker]

No matter how I do it, it puts the full link smh

[Joshydavid25]

Oooh you meant the gifs.. 😂😂.. My bad.. Yeah, if you are on your phone, pull the picture up in a new tab and select the copy icon.. For some reason it works that way for me.

[Asker]

This ancient device I'm currently using is so confusing lol

[Joshydavid25]

If you're on the mobile website.. You'll click the URL and if you device has it, it should have a copy icon to the right.

[Asker]

I'll figure it out some other time I guess

[NathanDavis]

definitely more of personality, character, attitude, aptitudes and all that... lol

looks are fine, but the personality and stuff is what would make me stand out

[Asker]

Fair enough, that's a valid opinion indeed lol

[NathanDavis]

more balanced too, because different girls, and ex-girlfriends told me about different things "they saw in me" first, lol

so again, what I always claim... different people are into different things, lol...

[Asker]

Fair enough lol

[NathanDavis]

not everyone appreciates my dumb jokes... lol

[Asker]

Not their kind of humor I guess lol

[NathanDavis]

which is more than fair... can't complain about that either, lol

[Asker]

I guess not lol

[Still-alive]

im like 10% looks, 90% personality. i can overlook most physical things except for the face and obesity. but personality is where im very picky ill admit.

[Asker]

Fair enough, the good thing about weight no matter the size is that it's not permanent.

[Still-alive]

yes and to be clear i can date chubby just fine, but obesity is what i can't do. its very unhealthy first and 2nd yeah it does make a person not look very good.

[Asker]

Yep there's nothing wrong with having limits, that goes for everyone

[Little_Bumblebee]

A good balance of both. Of course, I need to find something attractive about the guy. But if his personality is trash, then he has no chance.

[Asker]

Fair enough 😊🐝

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Probably personality. Only thing going for my looks is cuteness and that's it.

[Asker]

Cuteness isn't a bad thing tho 😆

[mandyfire98]

Hard to determine really. I'd say personality honestly. But it's for others to ultimately decide.

[Asker]

It is but I'd like to know where your personal opinion is when it comes to yourself

[mandyfire98]

I'd say personality

[Asker]

👍👍👍

[KittygosMeoWW]

I’m average but my personality usually attracts hotter guys.

[Asker]

It does? Your personality must be quite unique, do you know what attracts them specifically about your personality? 🤔

[WhitneySnow]

Personality but I have to be attracted to them or it won’t work except as friends

[Asker]

That's fair rnough

[Thestupidusername]

definitely personality. I'm avarage as best in looks.. but would say below:)

[Asker]

I think you are a good balance tiny, you are just extremely tiny 😂

[Thestupidusername]

Alright then thanks GIANT😂

[Asker]

You're welcome tiny lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

She's either got the best of both or I'm not interested.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[Fireguy17]

personality is first and foremost.
Looks change over time, as we get older your body changes, that is just nature.
But who you are is who you are.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

I am more into vibe than anything else. Some people just look so beautiful, but they are not doing anything in terms of attraction😅😅

[MissBoogus]

It was def personality at first because I didn’t find him attractive at first tbh.

[Asker]

That's pretty crazy but cool 🤔

[slatyb]

For me, looks are binary -- I would kiss them, or I wouldn't. After that it's all personality -- intellectual, emotional, and sexual compatibility.

[Anonymous]

Personality. But no woman seems to hear what I say. So I have no clue what they drawn to when they're drawn to me.

[Asker]

Well personalities speak for themselves lol

[Lisia]

I think I'm balanced lol

[Asker]

I agree lol

[blklblub]

Both for me. I need good looks to be sexually attracted to someone and I need a nice personality to want to stay with them.

[blklblub]

I mean like he doesn't have to be greek god handsome but i have to find him somewhat physically attractive

[Asker]

I understand that, the looks are the lure and the personality is the hook

[sawno]

Personality but she does need to be sexually attractive to me.

[Anonymous]

Nobody dates anyone in terms of personality.

[Asker]

That's cap, they do

[DizzyDesii]

Looks 51%, personality 49%

[DizzyDesii]

I’ve definitely let shit slide if they were hot enough 😩😭

[Asker]

I know you have, I remember you let red flags slide lol

I've never seen how you look but flip the numbers, I've seen enough personality to make the educated guess 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Thats only because those flags looked like a watermelon. Not entirely red nor green 😂

[Asker]

Well that's a new excuse, I've never heard of the watermelon finesse 😂

[DizzyDesii]

🤣🤣

[TiaNour]

Personality all the way

[Asker]

Balanced, two words Tia.

RED DRESS

[TiaNour]

Bro I had that pfp for like a week months ago

[Asker]

What can I say, very effective first impression ha

[TiaNour]

Yeah I should’ve used a different pfp ngl

[Asker]

What Why? 😂

[TiaNour]

Cuz I shouldn’t of used a pfp of me when I first joined

[Asker]

I don't get why it makes a difference when you joined and now, if anything it brought more attention to your account, if it's cause I keep bringing it up, I'll stop 😂💯

[TiaNour]

Nah ur good lol

[Asker]

💯💯

[sheikalana]

A good balance of both.

[Asker]

Nice 👍

[syncheart]

I prefer a balance of both.

[Asker]

Which do you believe you are tho?

[syncheart]

I might be neither. Because I'm not attractive physically, and also I have a personality disorder, and don't have any friends who like to hang out with me.

[Asker]

You'll be surprised on who you can attract, don't beat yourself up too much.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

What do you mean?

[Asker]

Which do you have more? Lol

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Looks: -100
Personality: 10,000+

[Asker]

Fair enough ha

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Yeah both are subjective so I wouldn't know. Personally I don't find anything wrong with my appearance.
As for my personality, guys have told me that I have a cute personality. 🙃

[Asker]

Yea cute would be the best way to describe it I suppose haha

[PrettyCrumblBb]

I think I'm endearing.

[Asker]

Wdym?

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Appealing personality 😋

[Asker]

Oh, yea you do lol

[serenalovesramen]

I like it to be 50-50

[Asker]

Is it Not?

[serenalovesramen]

Not what

[Asker]

50 50

[serenalovesramen]

I don’t think so, but maybe 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

[Al_Musafir]

Personality for sure.

[Kingofkings1992]

You’ve asked this before

[Asker]

I did, when?

[Kingofkings1992]

Maybe it was similar, I think you asked which one you’re more attracted to

[Asker]

Probably lol

[Nikki1989]

Neither.

[Asker]

That's kinda true, never really seen you express a personality, that's wild 🤔

[systemsareyo]

Looks grab the looks 👀

[LiamJHayden]

My outgoing personality is my saving grace.

[jimmy2]

Both they go together

[austinbooth]

Soul