Personality is overrated. It's better to have average personality but outstanding looks than having outstanding personality but just average looks. Human nature is superficial, people who deny that are rather victims than beneficiaries of this fact.
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Looks are important. I have to be sexually attracted to them to have any desire to have sex and I have to potentially wake up to them every morning.
However, personality is what ultimately makes you fall in love with a person. How much chemistry you have with someone is the most important thing in a relationship.
my preferences or my own qualities
either way, well i don't know if you ask what traits of myself is more attractive i would say my looks since appearantly i have bad attitude, selfish, aggressive, impatient, reckless, sarcastic, egoistic and cruel.
Personality, who this person is, how feels, reacts, if we have matching interests, points of view, if we can communicate, discuss, laugh...
Looks are appreciated but not required :D
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Personality. I would want to be with someone that I get along with well (and vice versa)/matches with me well. Looks could be important too, but I feel like if you really like a person for who they truly are then you can sort of overlook the looks/it wouldn’t matter so much.
No matter how hot/pretty/good looking/etc someone is, you shouldn’t be with someone if their personality is trash.
I put a lot of weight on personality and character and I have quite high standards for that.
So, if someone meets those standards, but are average-looking, they will be more attractive to me than someone who’s very physically attractive but doesn’t meet the non-physical standards I have.
I want a strong and meaningful emotional bond with whoever I’m with.
I’d rather have a top 1% emotional bond with someone, rather be with someone who has top 1% looks but we lack intimacy.Hmmm depends on who you ask. I know I have a lot of personality, but I also know most people mostly notice my looks... specifically my "personalititties" as my boyfriend puts it
Personality (humility and kind hearted) builds a home and looks... not so much unfortunately. Some think their looks make up for their lack of personality (shit personality) but at the end of the day it's the heart.
Definitely his personality. I know I am an older woman, but I still like to have a guy that is fun to be with and make me laugh. It's especially fun when I make him laugh too 🥰🤭😋🤗
definitely more of personality, character, attitude, aptitudes and all that... lol
looks are fine, but the personality and stuff is what would make me stand outThat's a good question honestly.. Probably looks though.. I have a pretty "interesting" personality, and I feel like I have character, but what most people will pay attention to is the looks TBH..
im like 10% looks, 90% personality. i can overlook most physical things except for the face and obesity. but personality is where im very picky ill admit.
A good balance of both. Of course, I need to find something attractive about the guy. But if his personality is trash, then he has no chance.
Probably personality. Only thing going for my looks is cuteness and that's it.
Hard to determine really. I'd say personality honestly. But it's for others to ultimately decide.
I’m average but my personality usually attracts hotter guys.
Personality but I have to be attracted to them or it won’t work except as friends
definitely personality. I'm avarage as best in looks.. but would say below:)
She's either got the best of both or I'm not interested.
For me, looks are binary -- I would kiss them, or I wouldn't. After that it's all personality -- intellectual, emotional, and sexual compatibility.
personality is first and foremost.
Looks change over time, as we get older your body changes, that is just nature.
But who you are is who you are.I am more into vibe than anything else. Some people just look so beautiful, but they are not doing anything in terms of attraction😅😅
It was def personality at first because I didn’t find him attractive at first tbh.
Personality. But no woman seems to hear what I say. So I have no clue what they drawn to when they're drawn to me.
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