Do you go for looks or personality?

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Do you go for looks or personality? <:?

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

When I was younger, naive, and settled for any guy that gave me an iota of attention, I'd say personality.

That definitely shifted as I got older. Yes, personality is a must. I can't even talk to a guy that can't hold a conversation, or barely has any sense! But looks are relevant...
All the past guys I dated, I was NOT attracted to them at all! But I dated them regardless because I gave their personalities a chance-

They were shit too, and look where that got me 😂
But realistically, looks pique my interest, the brain and personality reel me in.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

I go for ugly men with good personalities

Fabiloso · Accepted Answer

Its the combination I go for. If I only get a sense of her prowess or body then I'll wait happily for the reveal of those personalities she picks out of a hat. Then talks and walks as we go deeper. I rather a long game before even a date really.

Starrrboy · Accepted Answer

Personality with the minimum level of physical attraction with me wanting to grab her and kiss her every time I see her 😅..

AviatorTom · Answer

Initial attraction is almost always based on looks. Then personality gets to be important too.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Both are important when it comes to dating.

Im surrounded by plenty of people with good personalities. They’re called friends. & I don’t associate with someone if they’re an asshole no matter how they look.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

She's either gorgeous AND a matching personality, or I'm not interested.  Going for one or the other is just nonsense. Better off being celibate and alone for life than settling.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Personality. There are hot women by the dozen where I work. That's not enough for me to cross the room.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

a good mixture of both, though personality should be 65 percent. If she is a 10/10 in looks but personalitywise she is a Karen/Bully/B*tch/Golddigger I stay away

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is all about personality, which annoys the hell out of men that don't have any.

Princessvarsha · Answer

I would say both 50-50% is important for me dear

Lokiion · Answer

Both I don’t want to date a 3/10 looks wise with a 8/10 personality rather days a 6/10 for both although I would take a 5/10 with a good personality over a 9/10 looks wise with a 3-4/10 personality

Yannae · Answer

I say personality is more important. Does that mean that I disregard looks? No, I will look at both looks and personality.

DWornock · Answer

Almost all men and women go for looks. However, most men and all women will lie and claim personality.

Ben487 · Answer

looks is the first thing I would see but if the right personality isn't part of the package it will never go anywhere. So I guess in a way I go for looks first.

Exterminatore · Answer

Start with looks. If you’re ugly I don’t care about your personality.

Twalli · Answer

Personality. Don't get me wrong, my girlfriend is attractive, but her personality is what made me fall in love with her

zagor · Answer

Needs to meet minimum standards for both. After that, personality takes precedence.

Malwi93 · Answer

in my opinion people pair up according to life wants

BLP11520 · Answer

Personality first, looks are not everything

Anonymous · Answer

I have to be physically attracted to her, but I also need to not want to kill myself when I'm with her. Looks and personality are important.

Anonymous · Answer

Personality, looks don't matter to a man who looks like the back of a truck

black_king · Answer

When I was younger it was looks but as I got older it’s more of personality and stability reliability things that build a solid foundation in a relationship

HitsyHonesty · Answer

I don't pick, I go for all!

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

For me it's usually personality.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Vibes, personality, looks

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Personality first but looks don't hurt at all

sheikalana · Answer

A combination of both.

riverrat3 · Answer

I try for 60/40 personality/looks

Anonymous · Answer

I start with looks then go for personality.

MissBoogus · Answer

Both

KaiidiraX · Answer

I go for both

David6668 · Answer

Second is better

Staximus · Answer

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