Ideally, a reasonable compromise of both.
Personality is obviously the more important of the two. I wouldn't even consider being with the hottest woman in the world, if she was a raging b*tch.
Likewise, though; I need to be with someone that doesn't look like a baboon's asshole, either. My standards for physical appearance are not extremely high. I just need to be reasonably attracted to them.
I'd be perfectly happy with an average woman, who makes me smile, and with whom I enjoy spending time.
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Neither. If I admire a person's looks or personality, it will draw me to them, for sure. That initial attraction is important. But what's most important is who we make each other.
Do we make each other better or do we bring out each others weaknesses? Do we have compatible values?
Ultimately, it's has to be the product of us, which is partially their personality, partially mine. Mix in past experiences. Mix in goals and future experiences.
I’d rather be with someone I get along well with in the dark.
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both. you can't be with someone who's ugly and you can't be with someone who has a shitty personality. listen i've known women who were either physically ugly and i couldn't see myself being physically intimate with those women and i knew women who were good looking but had shitty personalities and that was a turn off as well.
personality for sure. Looks are important, but if she just knows how to dress well, then that's all that matters. Not saying slutty, just nice.. like a good pair of leather pants and a nice sweater
Partner, that has a good personality even if they aren't so attractive?
personalityyyyyyyy everytime.
You can't fix a busted up face.
You can fix someone's personality only until they fall back on it and betray you.
All the ugly, wonderfully kind and happy girls, slide into my dm's.
I'm ready.Personality by far.
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