Would a guy prefer a pretty transgender woman over an ugly cisgender woman?

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As an ugly cisgender woman, I've come to understand, perhaps painfully, that society often elevates those who fit its narrow definition of attractiveness. I've observed, sometimes with a tinge of resignation, that a pretty transgender woman is preferred in the eyes of some, even if they don't yet possess female genitalia. It has most definetly been my experience that even transphobic men would prefer to bone a pretty transgender woman compared to me.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

A "transgender woman" is a man, pretending to be a woman, and NO heterosexual man is going anywhere near that guy.

I do not use the label "cisgender" as it is part of the left's agenda to label everyone and advance identity politics. I'm sure you are asking about real heterosexual women. The picture you use for the "no" option is, I assume, the allegedly ugly "cisgender" woman.

You deserve an honest and sincere answer to your question and I suspect that the photo you used is a picture of you. That picture is not an ugly woman. She also is not a beautiful movie star/fashion model woman. She is a normal, regular, middle of the road, average woman.

Most of us are normal, regular, middle of the road, average people, we will meet a normal, regular, middle of the road, average member of the opposite sex, and settle into a long term relationship. I know because I consider myself to be rather average, and my fiancee is a 60 year old normal, regular, middle of the road, average Chinese woman. . . and I love her with all of my heart.

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

That's insane. A man pretending to be a woman isn't "pretty", nor does any straight man prefer them to any woman.

by the way, if the woman who's the "no" option supposed to symbolize unattractive women, well, she doesn't- she is not ugly at all.

Shgshshdg · Accepted Answer

There is plenty of pretty girls and women who aren’t transgender in the world. You just posted a bad picture of the second one. No idea who she is but it looks like she is uncared for. Not ugly. Definitely could look better if she fixed her hair and didn’t look so tired in the picture.

CrabCakes11 · Accepted Answer

I do not care about if my partner is transgender or not. I’d likely chose the more attractive person. Everyone has their preference though and from what I can tell you are not ugly. All you need is some hair care.

normalice · Answer

There are gay men out there. I'd imagine it makes them less interested to look like a woman. But if a trans persons hopes are to have straight men who want to be in a relationship with then, that's just not realistic. We can advocate for them to legally check the "F" box on college applications and insist they be given the equal protection of the law, but we can't force our penises to pretend a dude's butthole is actually a woman's. That's not something we have control over.

electromagnetic · Answer

The comparison seems unfair. The girl on the top has makeup on, hair is nicely done, the lighting is perfect. She probably wearing a quality outfit. The girl on the bottom has everything going against her in terms of having a quality photo.

Anonymous · Answer

“even if they don't yet possess female genitalia.”

Bottom surgery doesn’t give them female genitalia. What used to be there scrotum skin is used to create something that looks like a vulva. Their cosmetic vulva is made of scrotum skin. Scrotum is male. Bottom surgery for them also post op they also don’t posses ovaries, ova, uterus, cervix, falliopes tubes.

Kaneki05 · Answer

The difference would have to be pretty grand.
Lets see how that trans woman is without make up compared to you.
I'll take the bet that you would be more attractive and you would be the one I would rather wake up to look at.

sawno · Answer

I don't consider the girl on the no option ugly, but if she was neither one would appeal to me sexually. At that point i'd prefer hanging out with the ugly woman simply due to not having to walk on eggshells with the whole pronoun stuff.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

The way I see it and sorry if I upset anyone but, a man can make all the changes he wants in his life, I will STILL always see him as a man, and I'm hetero.  Therefore I can only answer with no.

laly520 · Answer

so u r comparing a model from thailand whos wearing makeup n hair is done with a regular woman? in my opinion the regular woman has the potential to look so pretty with a makeover

Berethor · Answer

I am not gay and I kinda want children, something that only a real woman can give me.

strateguy632 · Answer

you have too much time on your hands. get a real life.

loladevine · Answer

The second girl would be so pretty if it was a different angel and her hair wasn’t frizzy

JHAYES317 · Answer

No. Not into trans women…can’t deal with the fact that they have or had a penis.

Anonymous · Answer

No. You see, unlike women, when men are straight they actually find the idea of sexual interaction with other members of the same sex repulsive.

Twalli · Answer

The way I see it is that the genetalia determines whether they're make or female on a sexual level. I won't date anyone with a penis.

Tomisworthless · Answer

I would yes nobody likes ugly people their like the unadoptable animals at the shelter

Anonymous · Answer

Rubbing our dicks together sounds quite wonderful, but that's just for sex, for a relationship, still the girl would be best

Jersey2 · Answer

No. I am not gay or bisexual.

gorydetails · Answer

maybe if he was gay and in denial.

goebenbreslau · Answer

real men don't prefer people with y chromosome

Anonymous · Answer

Neither.

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