Why do the guys I like do not like me enough and the guys who like me I do not like at all?

[Anonymous]

[Cheapskate]

This diagram should explain it. One circle is people you like, the other is people who like you. The overlap, where you both like each other is smaller.

[Asker]

nice analogy

[Cheapskate]

Thanks

[BarryLiverstone]

Because you force all guys into the friendszone. If a guy wants to date you, he’s not going to like being zoned.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Maybe you move too quickly? Maybe the approach isn't right? Maybe it's just the wrong guy?

[Asker]

not really I place all guys in the friend zone first, even when I like them and want to date. I have to see how they are as a friend first.

[Caroline91]

That might be a problem. If a guy likes you and you friend zone him most likely he's just going to just move on to the next girl he might be interested in dating.

[Ms_Facesitter]

The friendzone thing, although I understand it, can send a mixed signal to him that you aren't looking to date.

[jahaims]

Sounds like you try to date out of your league and you think guys in your league are below yours.