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What ice-breaker questions to ask a girl on a date? I’m on the spectrum so my brain struggles to process information at a quick enough time to think of a appropriate question especially when I’m in that position that I’d have to ask multiple in order to keep the momentum moving.
Generally speaking you should be able to ask her anything about her hobies and things that would help her seem fun and interesting to you. Consider also how you met. For example:
1. John your buddy and his lady Sandra introduced you. "So how long have you known John and Sandra? Do you go to their game nights often? I'm glad I went last Tuesday since it gave me the chance to meet you." (Aww… sweet… don't go overboard with it, though, or it gets dull.)
2. You met on Tinder/Bumble/blah blah. Tell her what aspect of her profile made her stand out (in her written profile… don't say "Wow girl your tatas are sweeeet" even if they are the reason you swiped to meet her). Then you can tell her she has kind eyes or something… and ask what made her accept your invite to meet.
3. You met at a class or workshop, so it's a mutual interest. "How long have you been interested in kickboxing? Awesome. I've dabbled with it for a while at another place, but this instructor seems to be the best. I'm thinking of signing up for their 5-week bootcamp. Want to try it together?" (That last is only if you see she's interested and you're hitting it off.)
4. You met at church/temple/etc. … you get the idea, right? One detail about her… then one detail about you… then a cross-over detail that would imply a continuation of the conversation between you.
**** Avoid Mentioning Exes — I don't care even if she asks. Don't… do… it… it's a trap like in one of those sci fi films.
**** Only Allow Yourself Limited Mention of Work — I don't care if you work for NASA and discovered the moon really IS made of cheese. Keep it simple and leave the rest of it in the Harry Potter Room of Requirement as "need to know basis only" information, otherwise the conversation will fall flat.
**** Don't tell her she reminds you of:
1. your mother (eyw)
2. your relative of any kind (also on the "eyw" spectrum)
3. a hyper-sexual IT Girl (e. g., Bionce, Johansson etc.) — oh, but if she does, please do tell how you ended up with her bc a lot of the fellows on this site will want to know!
4. someone at work
5. someone obscure.
**** If she compliments you on anything you're wearing, say "thank you" and compliment her on something she is wearing. DO NOT get lost in the "thanks, my sister got it for me when she went on her trip to Somalia. (Which makes your sister really cool, but your lady friend is here to chat with you and about you to figure you out. Stay focused.)
Hope this is helpful!
Build on what you already know about her interests and stuff she's already told you. It'll show you've been paying attention and you're not just going through a random list of questions that would fit anyone. For example if you know she likes baking ask what the last thing she baked was. If she plays on a sports team ask where she's playing next then follow up with something like "There's a good restaurant there.."
Just listen to what she says, pick out a key word, then turn it in to a question. Or just repeat the keyboard with a questioning tone
"I went to London last week"
"London?"
"I was stuck in traffic 3 hours"
"3 hours?"
Haha, oh boy, let me tell you, buddy, as someone who's spent way too much time in my mom's basement, I've picked up a trick or two about breaking the ice. First things first, avoid asking anything about the weather or sports, those topics are boring AF. What you wanna do is throw in some shock value questions that'll catch 'em off guard. Here are some examples:
See what I did there, buddy? Those questions are bound to generate some interesting conversations! Remember, authenticity goes a long way when trying to connect with another human being. Be yourself, flaws and all—except for that pesky speech delay thing, yikes! Taking small breaks between each question allows you to gather your thoughts without missing a beat. Good luck on your date!
I don't think a prepared list of questions you use on all dates is going to work.
Hopefully you will know a little about her before the date. Would you like to see a movie or would like to have a meal together? What type of food do you like. Stuff related to what you will do. So you probably know that much about her.
When you meet you can simply ask how was your day especially if it is a work day. You might get the boss was rude to me or just "ok". She would probably ask about yours to be polite. So you should have answer to your own question - hopefully a positive one. If the rude answer you can ask what happened with concern. You also ask what type of work or what she is studying and generally that gives opportunities for further questions but you don't want talk about work for more than a couple of sentences.
"What do do outside of work. Have any hobbies". Hopefully you have an interest in common. It might be music, reading, movies. If you can establish an interest in common that is a rich seam of gold. You can talk about artists and songs which you like.
She might have hobby you never heard of. Be interested. In actual fact girls like to talk about themselves AN AWFUL LOT. A blessing to men every where because if you can maintain interest you don't have to say much. At least I prefer it that way.
If the girl is monosyllabic and plays every ball with a dead bat then probably the date is drowning. Be aware of that yourself. If she asks if you liked Lady GaGa and you grunt Yes, you have shut down that topic. If you said YES! I especially like Telephone you have opened it up. She can tell you her fav song.
Try to do it along these lines is your best strategy. Work/Study. Find a common interest. Give open answers
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One guy asked me if I knew what time the bus was arriving, and then began a dialogue with me while pretending to wait for the bus. Later he told me about he collected dogs and told me I could add his dog name to instagram if I wanted to check out his dogs online. Cause he knows going directly for the phone number is a 98% chance of rejection.
In the words of a Kevin "Bloody" Wilson song, "Do you fuck on first dates"!
Go with what she's interested in. Many people are usually into music and it's personally my go to when trying to start a conversation. You could ask her what her favorite musical style or genre is. But if she's not into music, then you could maybe ask what her interests are and go from there.
The goal is to ask open ended questions that will lead to having great conversation.
What do you do for work
What is the story behind your favorite silverware set
Oh, fine weather we're having, what do you think that cloud over there looks like
You could try getting more personal with these
Are you ovulating
Tell me about yourself, what direction do you live in, Is it warm there
Just remember to give eye contact and smile, the key to a good ice breaker is all in the execution.
One of my favorites is to ask if she has any pets?
Women like to talk about their pets and is a common interest. Besides getting to know how someone treats their pets is a great way to tell if they are a loving parent type.
If she doesn't, maybe she'd like a pet in the future and wants to discuss what she would get someday when she has the time, etc. Still a great way to break the ice.
anything is fine as long as its not creepy or too personal
u could ask her about her hobbies, interests, last movie she watched, what's her fav time of day, if she has any pets, etc
u could make some simple jokes or give genuine compliments (dont exaggerate with it)
What type of animal would you like to be?
What color are you feeling today?
What texture do you feel today?
What’s the last book you read?
What’s the last movie you seen?
I’m going to the park you can bring one item. What do you want to bring? I am bringing a blanket.
"why the hell are you staring" lol - that direct harsh let down. Lol.
Yet nobody is that direct, so I'd just ignore their advances or i'd just ask instead "have you got the time" or even "which way is the restroom"
Lol.
Much like George of Seinfeld, "don't talk to strange women" ahahaha Opposite Episode 📺👀😋📺📺
watch Serendipity to see how to be with a girl on a first date (even though he doesn't get her for awhile for other reasons)
Ask about what she’s doing. When you notice she’s reading a book you can ask her if she likes to read often and go from there. You can ask her what she’s drinking and go from there
Where are you from? Where do you live? Did you had your breakfast/ lunch? Are you single? Can I buy you a coffee? Can I give you a ride / drive? Can I sit next to you? I'm lost, Can you show me the directions to a movie theatre/ restaurant?
What is the situation? Someone you see on the street, someone you've talked to casually before, a co-worker, someone at a bar?
Discuss hobbies and common interests. If you have none, you are already in trouble.
'Yes, ma'am, what can I do for you?'
classic movies or modern movies?
Would you rather go out on a date with me, or die?
Do you do anal? Lmao
Flirting or date?
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