If you are strarting to get to know a girl, what questions would you ask her?

[Anonymous]

Let's say i'am starting to get to know this girl. I'am not really experienced in "talking" to a girl what are some good things to keep a convo going?

[_Maya_]

There are lots of things. I would start by asking her what she is into. Build off that to keep a conversation going. Example would be she says she likes to travel. That is perfect to ask her favorite places to go or wants to go and let her guide the conversation a bit. Have a few things in mind. I am guessing you know a little about her at this point. Maybe she is into certain hobbies or whatnot. Those are all good things to discuss. If they are relatable to you then talk about that too. Like your last vacation or something if we use the travel example.

[Asker]

Thank you Maya I really appreciate it! Yesterday she asked how my day was going then I said it.. Then she said asked again lol and it kinda got awkward 🤦 so if we talk again today I'll say that and see how it goes haha. The only thing with her is her situation is a little unique. If I were to say it I would have to send personal message to you

[_Maya_]

Welcome! I would have a few things in mind to talk about. Like if she is asking how your day has been think in advance of a couple of things to mention. Sorta like a game plan if you know what I mean.

[Asker]

Thank you. I followed you if would like to message

[loveslongnails]

In the beginning, just ask her to tell you about life... the basic where'd you grow up, family, are you into music, do you play an instrument, what are you passionate about? People love to talk about themselves, so get her to do that, and listen.

After a few dates if things are going nicely, ask her what things she values over everything else. It doesn't have to pertain strictly to a relationship. Then after she tells you, ask her if SHE brings all of those things to the table as well. In essence, you've asked her if she walks the walk, not just talks the talk. If she gets defensive about it, she's not a girl you want. If she stays calm and says something like "I believe I do, and I'd never ask expect something out of a person that I couldn't deliver myself", then you've got a keeper - so long as it's actually true!

[Asker]

Thank you very much I appreciate it a lot

[Anonymous]

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