What kind of questions would you ask a girl you’re attracted to to get to know her?

[Anonymous]

Or how can a girl tell if a guy is friendly or flirting in a conversation with a fellow student/coworker etc?

[abc3643]

A favorite subject that almost everyone loves to talk about is "home" - where they were raised. So, when you ask people about where "home" is, they will often perk up a bit. However, if you know a little bit about where that "home" is, then you can converse better and really hit it off. This is why it pays to know as much geography (and history) as you can.

Let's try it out.
Where is home to you? That is, where do you live now and where did you grow up if it is different?

[MattJ2000]

Men, like women, take a deep interest in the hobbies and history of the people they like. My fiancee and I initially bonded over a shared love for painting, playing music, and creating digital artwork. Early on when we were getting to know each other, I used to ask deeper questions about her culture, upbringing, why she started music and art, what made her decide medical school was right for her, etc...

You'll find that mentally stimulating men who are interested in you will never lose curiosity and always draw out some of your deepest feelings on the matters their questions concern. Men who are interesting, intelligent, and unique, will ask you interesting, intelligent, and unique questions.

[bobalife]

Pays attention to what matters to her, ask about her day or how she’s doing, ask about her interests/passion, values, and etc about life :)

[DreamLife7]

He's not interested in you. If he liked you he would've asked to be in a relationship with you

[HawkPerception]

I usually play 20 questions to break the ice and help with conversation points. It could be anything from what their favourite foods and color is to something like that kind of childhood trauma they have if any and how do they handle it. It gets deeper as they get more comfortable.

[itsclearlynicholas]

What they like doing in their spare time/covertly ask if they're single, ask their values in a clever way, watch the same TV shows or not. Start to the deal breakers thick and fast without making it a 20 questions investigations ahahahaha

[LRSJame]

A player knows how it works. Are you interested in what a player would say?

[SolitarySolace]

I’d ask her why she’s doing this. What’s in it for her because women are selfish and always want something and it isn’t love because in my experience women are not capable of love

[Anonymous]

It's not what I ask her. It's what she lies about. There are several dead giveaways when a woman is lying. What she lies about tells you what she's trying to hide, what kind of a person she is.

[OtterMan68]

What's your dream vacation?

Favorite book, movie, and TV show.

Are you a spiritual person?

Camping or glamping?

[laly520]

about her interests, goals in life etc

[KrakenAttackin]

How is her relationship with her Father.

[Asker]

And if she said it’s bad?

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... that would be a red flag.

[Anonymous]

I say: "Do you like cabbage soup?"