Hi! Should I make a move? or do anything in general?

[Anonymous]

Long story short, i met this girl a while ago and i instantly felt that she’s different, we quickly became friends and had a lot in common, everything went good (except i didn't really touched her cus i respect her?), but there's one thing that prevents me from doing anything and thats the age gap, when i met her we’re both minors (she turned 18 soon after tho) but now she's 19 and about to turn 20 this year and i still got a year until 18.
I was asking her if we can hangout and she agreed and didn’t left me alone and wonder my life purposes, she seems interested cus when me or she aren’t available we always plan another day instead of dropping the convo like other people i talked to.
Anyways, excuse for grammatical mistakes cus English isn't my first language, have a nice day!

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, that's a tricky situation with the age gap and all. On one hand, it does seem like you guys connect well and she's enjoying hanging out. But dating while you're still a minor could make things legally messy, you know?

I'd say for now, just try to keep hanging as friends without any pressure of something more. Use this time to really get to know her better and build trust. In a year when you're 18 it'll be a different story.

For now focus on listening without expectations and just having fun. Make sure she knows your situation too so no confusion. Compliment her personality, not her looks too much yet.

Once you hit 18, if you're both still feeling it then maybe ask her on a real date. But try not to get too eager yet - let things progress naturally. You don't want any creep vibes this early.

Just stay cool and keep letting your friendship grow organically. A year ain't that long to wait if it means sparing possible drama down the line. You'll know when the time is right man! Just take it slow for now.

[In_Trance]

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