What age category do men look most attractive?

[Anonymous]

I would say 25-35. Depending on various factors.

I mean all the most handsome men tend to be like 30-45. Like Tom cruise, Chris evans etc…

I agree with you

25-30

20-25

30-35

35-40

Younger than 20

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For women I would say 18-25. I think this is the only advantage men get to women. That our value can increase. We deserve it cause we have life way tougher than you girls

[Flatmanlewis]

I honestly thought I was hitting some kind of peak or dropping off point at 30. Then, since I grew up in a different era, I thought 40 was “over the hill”. I’ll tell you this: I get more attention and more flirting and compliments NOW than I ever have in my life - by a long shot. Like - it’s not even close. It baffles me.
Mind you I work out and eat well and have been blessed with good genetics but the fact I get more female attention at my age than I got in my 30s is not lost on me.


My theory is women are more attracted to the overall worth of a man - the “whole package” rather than being more looks focused.



When we sit around at work and talk about the hypothetical work crush the pattern seems pretty consistent. A lot of the guys tend to like the girls in their 20-30s but most of the girls tend to favor the guys in their 30-40s. A broad generalization, obviously.

[RebelinSteel]

Just a minor point but Tom Cruise is 61 years old..

Attitude, body type, sense of humour, sense of fun, sense of adventure will often make a guy more attractive than others in his age group.

[PeachyPie93]

They look the best from 20-30 after that it is all down hill same as for women. Men start getting the wrinkles, grey hair, around 38 they start getting the grandmpa ponch on their belly. Some guys still look hot til about 50 but most don't lol.

[Abbycado]

For me, personally, the 20-25 group, but that has to do with my own age.

[Asker]

Makes sense. Still though older than you. Women like older men

[Abbycado]

Slightly older is okay for me. That age range is good.

[Asker]

Out of interest would you consider someone 28, if you liked him. Or is she a dealbreaker

[Abbycado]

No, I think that isn't a complete dealbreaker if we are a really good match.

[Asker]

Good to know

[Apple1996]

20-30 after that most men start looking like grandpa's

[Asker]

All the men known for being handsome are all in their 30s or 40s. I think you’re still in your Justin Bieber era.
The key thing is to look after yourself. Most men live stressful lives so they pack on weight or stop going to the gym or eat garbage food they feed us

[Apple1996]

I hate to tell you but the worst looking men are middle aged men. And current day Justin Bieber is a vibe with all his tattoos and beard so cannot fight you on that but I did not like him when he was younger

[Asker]

I think you’re very biased. Maybe to you.
I’ve seen hot girls crush on their teachers that are in their 40s
I mean Justin is 30

[Apple1996]

Probably because they have daddy issues. Most people get creeped out if they had to walk alone down a street with a middle aged man.

And yeah I'm sure time is running out for him since most celebrities do drugs and make bad life choices. They don't look well into old age unless they get work done

[Asker]

That’s a bold assumption to make.
Look at Henry cavill he’s 40. 10X more handsome than any of the guys you see 20.
All the most handsome dudes are always 30-45.

It’s weird for a girl to be attracted to men younger than her as that doesn’t make sense evolutionarily.

[Asker]

Maturity, looks, experience, status and social skills all takes men a lot of time to develop usually.

[Apple1996]

It does make sense because men don't live as long as women. And mens sexual prime is in their early 20s while women not until their mid 30s

[Apple1996]

I don't even know who that is sorry lol

[Apple1996]

I just googled he isn't attractive in my opinion. And maturity has nothing to do with age. And what experience does a man need? I never understand people saying that shit

[Asker]

Complete bollocks. Men are more fertile than women for much longer.
Women 30+ need to have a child asap or they risk never having one. Which is why they should have kids 20-30.

How as a woman do you not know that. There’s so much fertility research out there. Men also produce billions of sperm whereas women don’t produce more eggs.

[Asker]

If you don’t find that guy attractive and he's literally a model. Well then, I think you’re trolling.

[Apple1996]

Mens sperm starts going downhill around 30 more so than a woman's eggs. I'm planning to be a surrogate next year and I will not take any man's sperm that is over 30-35 cause of the risks put on the pregnant woman

[Asker]

Also my uncle had a kid when he was 60 with a new woman. Women can’t do that. Women have more of a fertility window. Which is why when they hit 30
They hit the wall

[Apple1996]

Also I was talking about sexual prime like when they have the highest drives. Not necessarily fertility

[Asker]

Everyone know this to be true.

[Apple1996]

I've known women that have had healthy kids in their 50s

[Asker]

Oh right. I’ve not done as much research on that.

I doubt men’s sperm go downhill that much, less so than women’s eggs as we constantly produce new sperm. If a man’s healthy there’s no reason to not have kids when he’s 45

[Apple1996]

Men cannot even donate sperm past 35-40 because the risks are so high

[Asker]

Yeah but that’s extremely rare. Menopause is at like 50. I could also say the age of the oldest father was like 100 or something

[Asker]

Also that would be far more risky. Men just create the sperm. Women need to have viable eggs and a body that can sustain a child etc

[Asker]

There’s much more to go wrong with the female anatomy

[Apple1996]

It's also not right for a man that old to be a dad. Younger men have more energy and time to be a good dad

[Asker]

Probably the same age as being a surrogate. No man is going to pick a woman ideally 30+. They’ll want a woman 20-25

[Asker]

I do agree with that. But you could argue an older dad might have more resources to give his child the best start in life

[Apple1996]

Surrogate age isn't a big risk factor. There are some couples that have their moms or grandma's surrogate for them. Obviously cuz it's cheaper than getting a real surrogate

[Asker]

I meqn it’s common knowledge it get a woman that’s in her prime to have your child. You don’t want to have a miscarriage. But the money thing would make sense.
Is that why you want to do it to earn money?

[Apple1996]

Women cannot even become a surrogate till 22 or 23 depending on the place. They also have to previously have given birth to their own childern

[Asker]

Probably cause some young kids will take advantage of the money

[Apple1996]

Miscarriage is caused by the sperm. And for me it's not about the money I just want to help a family

[Asker]

I don’t know where you get a lot of your information from. Type in Google ‘causes of miscarriage’ it will you 20 reasons. Sperm, speed defects isn’t on the list.

[Apple1996]

It's because womens hips and pelvis aren't developed for birth until 23

[Asker]

Like I said earlier there’s a 100 times more things that can go wrong in a woman’s body.

Speak just houses the man’s genetic information

[Asker]

Makes sense then

[Apple1996]

Poor sperm quality is one of the top reasons for miscarriage

[Asker]

No it’s not it’s only when there's so much DNA damage which comes from being really old. Poor sperm quality would be a reason for not getting pregnant, also common in men really old with low test

[Apple1996]

The man's dna builds the placenta and half of all the babies chromosomes. The egg is stronger and less likely to cause problems compared to the sperm. It's very unrealistic to think that it's the mothers fault for health issues during the pregnancy

[Asker]

My opinion is that you should have had all your kids by 45 as a man. You’ll be fine.

[Apple1996]

Poor sperm quality can cause not getting pregnant at all but also cause all sorts of issues for the mom and baby if the egg does become fertilized with the bad sperm.

[Apple1996]

There is a good reason why I'm never carrying a older man's child. The surrogacy place I'm with agree with me on this and told me my preferences are valid considering it would risk my health during pregnancy and even long term

[Asker]

It mostly is the women’s fault. Men just have one job, put sperm in. There’s too much that can go wrong on the women’s side.

This is basic knowledge. It’s more common to hear of women with fertility issues, messed up fallopian tubes etc….

[Asker]

Well it’s your choice.
My dad had me at 40 and I’m perfectly healthy.

[Apple1996]

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ messed up fallopian tubes you gotta be joking. Mens health and sperm have just as much responsibility as the woman's body does when things go wrong

[Apple1996]

Yeah you sure seem healthy 🤣

[Asker]

Yes women can get damaged or collapsed fallopian tubes.

Take it from someone who is actually in the medical profession 😉, hormonal issues etc…. Are fundamental

You’re just jealous.
Like sure a man can be to blame, but it’s less common.

[Apple1996]

If a woman has a bad fallopian tubes she won't even get pregnant. It's not gonna cause health risks once the baby is already implanted into the uterus. A surrogate can have their tubes removed and still carry a baby

[Apple1996]

I already have a bunch of kids so I don't have any jealousy about that. At this point I'm starting to get jealous of people that are infertile 😂

[Asker]

It’s an example of all the things that can go wrong regards fertility. Whereas for men it’s usually low testosterone, so exercise and cut out processed foods. Done.

[Asker]

There’s a reason why a man can have 1000s and 1000s of kids and women can’t. We’re built different.

[Apple1996]

But yet only 40% of men ever even reproduce so y'all aren't having 1000s. 60% of y'all aren't even having one

[Asker]

Why is that then?

[Asker]

Also that’s not talking about todays time, but in history.

[Asker]

Basically all men can have a kid if they want. There’s losers with kids all the time.

[Apple1996]

Apparently cause not even man is making good enough sperm 😂

[Apple1996]

I imagine in today's times it's even less

[Apple1996]

They can't have kids cuz if they could they would. Most men don't have the sexual stamina to keep up with a woman so women then have to seek out multiple men

[Asker]

Nowadays it’s liberal non-values and men seem to be scared to commit to women. Also men have to provide a lot more value to have children, with inflation etc..

[Asker]

That doesn’t make sense. But also because who would commit to these whores nowadays anyway? They’re not mothers.

Promiscuous women are considered disgusting by every society

[Apple1996]

A mother had to be a whore to get the chance to become a mother. That's just how nature is

[Asker]

A woman sleeping with one man isn’t a whore. There’s a reason we used to stone these women to death. It’s disgraceful. It ruins the woman

[Apple1996]

I see it the opposite way. I would never get with a man that wasn't a virgin since men carry and spread diseases we can't test them for like hpv

[zagor]

Depends on genes, lifestyle, luck and environment. I looked a lot better at 35 than at 20 because at 20 I was still recovering from health issues from HS.

[exitseven]

25 to 30. I was benching 300 lbs and running a marathon a little more that 3 hours.

[Starrrboy]

I think 20-30... but there's a lot of guys look like shit in their 20s and then have a glow up in their 30s lol..

[Anonymous]

45+

Look at McDreamy and Rudd. We just got it like that.😁

[slatyb]

My age is the most attractive.

[Harris2294]

From 30 - 35. i guess!

[DrPepper12]

You're right 25-35 is prime time

[Anonymous]

That update is freaking hilarious, kid.

[Anonymous]

20s and 30s