Why is it so difficult to find someone who just wants to cuddle?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

My best guess is that most people of the opposite gender want more than just cuddles. That is the unfortunate way of thinking of our society nowadays.

Also, I am not quite sure that you would be satisfied with just cuddles if you would find the right person and have the right chemistry. You probably would want more than simply cuddling with that person.

I am the kind of person that does not really care for more than cuddles because I am not interested to pursue anything deeper. Also, I much prefer to have a platonic relationship and then, cuddles can be nice.

[Asker]

I see. Well it would be nice to have more than that too

[SueShe]

You mean, more than just cuddles?

[Asker]

Yes indeed

[SueShe]

Well then, why are you asking why it is difficult to find someone that does not want to fornicate. I was under the impression you prefered to just cuddle rather than to copulate.

[Asker]

Well I just want a romantic relationship with cuddling really

[SueShe]

well, then that would include fornication at a later date, right?

[Asker]

Potentially yeah but it's not the main focus

[SueShe]

okay

[Veles]

Babyman, if all you want is just cuddle get yourself a teddy bear then.

[Asker]

Not the same as cuddling a human

[TommyMountainFigure]

I've never found it difficult. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places?

[Asker]

Where are you looking

[TommyMountainFigure]

The nicest women I've met, I've met in supermarkets or shops. Just casually strike up a conversation. From there arrange a date.. People just make out like it's impossible.. It really isn't!

[Asker]

Interesting

[TommyMountainFigure]

Very important though. If or when you strike up a conversation, don't assume anything, just make it a nice casual conversation as if you were talking to your friends. Don't be disheartened if you don't connect either, as most times you won't.

[NathanDavis]

is this a fetish?

[Asker]

No I just want a hug bro

[NathanDavis]

where's your mother...

[The_Sexpert]

You mean no sex, just cuddle always?

[Asker]

Well only if they want it I'm just more interested in cuddling

[The_Sexpert]

So you have 0 interest in SEX?

[jahaims]

Because you are not desirable

[Asker]

How do I become desirable

[jahaims]

Have a good personality and be healthy