Do rizz matter for women?

[Anonymous]

I am talking about rizz /drip.

Can a average looking girl pull guys above her look match if she gave rizz?

[Flatmanlewis]

So, the over abundance of trendy slang kind of kills this question. However, can a girl be charismatic (my understanding of rizz based on my teenage kids) and drip enough (have enough style) to date guys out of her league?


Heck, anything I’d possible but I think as a general rule it’s women who are more willing to date “down” in the looks department, but usually in exchange for a level up in success, personality, income, status, or so on.


I think that as a general rule, and a generalization it most definitely is, men tend to do their best to date “up” in looks and not too concerned with a woman’s status, income, or success. Can a charismatic personality and/or sense of style cover that gap? Not usually, in my limited experience.


Most of the time men fall for women based on what they see. Most of the time women fall for men based on what they feel.

[Asker]

Taylor Swift date down in both looks and status. So does Rihanna. And many doja cat lol even Ariana Grande. Actually most female celebrities do

So don't talk about status. Many women date down in both

[Asker]

Ariana Grande had to give alimony to her ex husband. So did Britney Spears

And both look better than their mens

I just think that women are capable of falling in love.

[Asker]

So basically you believe that men can't fall in love unlike women?

[Flatmanlewis]

Well, your question says “…average looking girl…”. Not sure what your metric is but literally every single example you offered is far from an average girl. I’d say Ariana Grande is among the most beautiful women in the world. So, this does nothing to expand on your question.

[Flatmanlewis]

…and my reply doesn’t even mention love, nor does your question. By saying “…pull above average men” the topic seems limited to pulling - slang for going out with. It sure doesn’t seem to imply long term relationships, love, or marriage. Seems like your question asks one thing but your reply focuses on another.

[Asker]

I was talking about long term relationship. You see rich good looking young female celebrities dating a average looking/below average looking lower status ugly old dude.

Since I follow pop culture.
Why it happen?

[Asker]

Guy also date old ugly women. But those women always have money. When I think about it. Like Neymar mom was dating a 20 something model. But Neymar mom is extremely rich. He is probably a gold digger

You never see a guy dating uglier, older and middle class/lower status women

[Flatmanlewis]

Celebrities don’t live in the same reality as the rest of us. Their optic of what makes them date isn’t based on the value we would place on them. Our opinion of their worth or value means nothing.

[Flatmanlewis]

In other words at some point if you make $10M a month, and the man she likes makes $5M a month it’s irrelevant. At that point the money isn’t even the issue.

[Asker]

More like she is a billionaire and his net worth is 4 million. Like Taylor Swift previous boyfriend.

[Asker]

Nah it mean rich good looking women don't mind dating below in looks

Look at nicki hailey daughter. Her husband is very ugly. And she is daughter of rich politician
And he is math teacher.

Can you imagine her brother dating a ugly women who is also middle class?

Explain this

[Flatmanlewis]

I can’t explain this. You have some very obscure examples and the celebrity world is not rooted in the same reality as the rest of us. For every rich woman with a man of lower “status” I’ll name two men with a lower social status woman who, as her commodity, has beauty. It’s a cliché.

I’ll let somebody else take a swing at this ball. I don’t have the same investment in the topic you do.

[Asker]

This is the thing. Rich men are with lower status women who are pretty. But rich women date ugly lower status men lol

Maybe women are capable of falling in Love

[abc3643]

I don't understand the question.
How is Rick Rizzs relevant?

[Anonymous]

Only an immature man child would post this, but don't worry, people on here will play along.

[Flatmanlewis]

Except of course that the asker is a female…. so, maybe, an immature girl-child?

[BarryLiverstone]

A bit. Why does she wanna pull a better looking guy?

[In_Trance]

women date across and up
men date across, up and down

[OlderAndWiser]

[spartan55]

Sure, but all he will want from her is sex.

[CrabCakes11]

How old are you lmfao

[DonFredoCorleone]

I don't know what rizz/drip is